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Day 1 Even though we kinda agreed to end it in a fight, I feel she took the decision. Typing a text at the moment trying to say the real meaning behind it. I'm not gonna send it at the moment, but perhaps will if I feel worse. So utterly unbelievable, we had such a terrific last week and then...

Thanks I'm gonna read it through. Is it possible if you've been extremely jealous to get her IL back as it was before? I realize that acting jealous drops IL. Or is this just a lost case?

I understand, but I tried this even before I met her, I don't know why it doesn't work. I don't even know how I should do this. I tried everything from meditation till eating and living healthy. The main problem of her having someone else is the thought that the other guy is better than me.

The relationship is not over yet, but it won't be long. I just want to prepare myself to the following: I still have to work with her from time to time (waiters), she's a very social person and always get attention from guys. How can I prepare myself when I see she hooked up with one of them...

I know I need to end it, but I just can't. I think I can take some distance so it will make it easier, but how do I do this? And I guess I can't because I don't have any other girls in my life. I met her at work (waiter), and this a bar which is only open during the day and only attracts elder...

I talked to her about it. In fact figured out I'm actually not jealous but it's a mere fact that I acted that way because I don't want to be lied too and that if something would happen or she would develop feelings for someone, she has to say it. If she likes someone else better then so be it...

Hi Yesterday I caught my girlfriend looking at some other guy. She knows this person well and joke around from time to time. I caught her looking at him when everyone else was looking at someone else who was talking. I acted jealous, cause I thought some jealousy would be good in a...

Are you serious? I don't mean this in a bad way, I've been looking into meditation/mindfulness too, but just can't seem to put my time into it as I guess don't believe it... Does it really work?

On days were you can't go outside due to horrible weather, what do you guys do? I go to the gym 3 times a week and work a lot but sometimes when on off days and I don't have to work or have anything to do, I just get bored and find myself in front of my laptop all day. I don't watch shows...

She does act different when I don't text that often as I notice today. But I can't help myself to think she'll loose interest and seek more conversations with someone else... But I feel better as well.

But what should I do then? I mean, you have to be there for your girlfriend in rough times no? Today when I was texting a lot slower, I also felt much better and more confident, but then she says something like "i'll see you tomorrow" and then I start to think stuff like she's loosing...

Even when it's something important like this? Won't it work backwards? Like she thinking I'm not there for her when she needs it.

Today I delayed my response time, not the hour as stated above but in the range of 15-30 minutes. At some point she says 'I'll see you tomorrow, you're clearly busy with some stuff'. At which I said, no I'm not (when actually I was mixing some music). She was talking about her little niece who...

In the beginning when she texted, I waited for about 15-30 minutes to reply, now I basically reply instantly because I think she'll loose interest if I keep replying late. For example today, she texted something but I was out running and never take my phone with me, she didn't know I was out...

Hi All is going well in the relationship, but the further it progresses, the more fear I get of her leaving me. I've been through a very very horrible break up a couple of years back and left me devastated for over a year. I don't want this to happen again and I guess that's why I'm so afraid...

Question about applying it. I spray about 3 times on my neck and one on my wrists. I have never been compleimented on how good I smell and I've tried many colognes, many of which have been mentioned here. Is 4 times not enough? I sometimes can still smell a girls cologne after she went out for...

A lot of people are gonna say how stupid I was and that you don't mess with married woman when you read this, but I need to get it off my chest. I had a secret relationship with this woman who was 13 years older than me, married and has 3 children. Things weren't going so great in her marriage...

It indeed sounds weird, but I just need to have some time for myself from time to time. It's not just the gaming or watching a show, it's also going on a 300 mile long drive with my car alone. I know everyone has this need to do what he wants to do without his girl, I'm just wondering if it's...

I've always liked my freedom and a couple of days in the week I just want to be on my own. Get in the couch with a good beer, watch a good show or play some games. But with my current girlfriend, I really like her, I think, when we're together it's always a good time and we have a lot of fun...

All this sh*t about texting. Just text when you feel about it, don't watch the clock and wait exactly half an hour (or double as long as she waited to respond) or all that bull**** I read. If you have that great lifestyle we're all looking for, it automatically takes longer to respond to her. I...