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What I want is her to tell me everything, why she left me for him, why she never send me a text afterward explaining everything. Basically what I did wrong in our relationship why she lost interest. It's all about the things she said to me, she made me feel like I was truly 'the prince'. But...

You're all right I know that. But she broke up with her new toyboy a few weeks back and then got back together with him last week and now again chooses for her husband. I just don't understand why she gets back together with him but never reinitiated contact with me? This really makes me feel...

Don't you think I'm trying to figure this out for the past few years? I'm still thinking and waiting for that moment of epiphany, I'm even seeing a shrink to get to the bottom, but it's not coming and I'm sick and tired of it. Sorry if this comes on strong, I'm just fed up with myself and why...

Thanks for your responses. I don't know what else I can do to get my sh*t together. Since I found this forum 2,5 years ago, I started going to the gym, do more things of what I love, eliminated a lot of my AFC personality. I recently even invested a lot of money in a hobby I really wanted to do...

Hi all This is going to be a long and very depressive and sad post. Long story short: I feel the way I do right now because of my latest break up with a 13 year older woman, who was married and has three children. Thus it was an affair. I never saw a future with her, I just liked the...

It has been a month and a half of NC. Last weeks we didn't even said hi or bye anymore. I tried a test this week and told my boss I had a new girlfriend. Stupid as this is not true and now I have to face the consequences of why no one will ever see her, but yeah... Today I came into work, one...

Then the question remains, how do you do it? I do and try most of the things I've read about this. I go to the gym, I pursue hobbies I like,... But at the end of the day I still miss having a girlfriend or reminisce about my last break up and feel unhappy overall.

I care because I just can't place it. I don't understand how someone can leave all the good behind and don't miss it. I'm sure she was head over heels in love, but now, it's just not something I can get over.

Why does she tries to act normal to me? She tries to tease me, talk normal, I see her watching at me from time to time,... I shouldn't care I know, but we all know it's not that easy.

I'm 26 and yes I know. I can't stand people hurting me and especially not in this way. I can't stand good times going away.

Today was a very hard day. Some of you perhaps now the story of my ex and that I still have to work with her. Today I had to work 6 hours with her at some kind of show (thus with music). I saw her having a good time, dancing, laughing with everyone. I just ran around with a sad face, pathetic I...

Hi I get told often that they think I'm gay. Lately this is getting on my nerves and I ask them why they think this. They can't give a clear answer, they just get this feeling. Some answers I've got: I always look like I take care of myself. - I do always go out well groomed and with decent...

You have to figure that out for yourself. I believe something deeper is going on as I have very low confidence and self-esteem and my father died at the age of 12. A break up does this to you, but it lasts too long for me. I feel weird going to a psychologist yes, there is still this kind of...

Realize you're not alone in this and that time will heal. I have these mood swings also and I get sick and tired of them. My ex also had a new bf (lets say affair, I'm not going to post the complete story again) after a week, I believe this was going on for a while though, but it was then I was...

What an update My ex came into the bar and she got called by her husband who was serious mad. He's an ex criminal who burned stuff and ran around with a gun. I guess he was mad because she came into the bar pretty late for no reason, so he suspects something. A bit later her new guy came in. I...

I know of all the advice to just don't think about it and let her live her life. And this works from time to time. But in the end, when I get home, it all comes back. The thought of her with him, why she chooses him over me, does she have bpd or not, will she ever send me a text again that she...

Does not thinking about it really helps? Today I exercised a lot and it kept my mind of off it and I felt okay overall. But is this not postponing the problem to later? Or will this later then be a moment I really don't care anymore because so much time has passed?

Thanks everyone for your responses Thanks for the link BrainDamage, I've come to realize I have borderline as well, probably due to the death of my father when I was 12. I contacted a psychologist to get through this.

Guess it's day 20 Horrible horrible day. Yesterday in the evening she came to the bar, she didn't even entered, just stayed outside to have a smoke and then arrived her new guy. They both went for a 'walk' in the woods. I know they have something, but it still hurts to see it happen. Thoughts...

The ending of the night First of all I want to say sorry about all the sad stuff and questions I post here. But thanks for the responses. Now for what happened 10 minutes before I left. Her new toyboy left 20 minutes before closing time, my ex comes in 10 minutes before closing. I was...