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Read stormrider’s comment. The man’s a genius in purpose and creating a reality for yourself. I learned from him, and it strengthened my own observations and cognitions, but he communicates it more eloquently than I. You’ll get there, bud.

That right there. I deleted my comment, because @stormrider here said it better.

A being, at the base level, is a creative individual. Creative in creating wealth. Creative in art. Creative in bringing people together for the better. Leadership. What I mean by creative is that the natural state, and happiest state, is when you’re actively making things. Money, happiness in...

And he’s putting in mental investment she might not even deserve. I’ve seen this sort of thing happen, especially with the friend zoned guys that just keep trying to get her. The more investment he puts in, the more he’s going to dig his own grave, the needier and more attached he’s going to...

I’m going to assume your relationship is starting to cool down (it’s inevitable to one degree or another), else this wouldn’t be a question. No offense intended, just an observation. However, I have some questions to get a better idea of what’s going on. What’s her conduct toward you? What’s...

My thoughts exactly.

Hell, I’d say women in their twenties. They’re more fun, and usually saner. Less baggage than a woman who’s spent her life riding the CC.

By this point I’ve accepted the fact that a man considering himself a single point of light, an individual free of social contrivances, is simply a foreign concept so outside some’s reality that I can’t even communicate to them on that level. They simply don’t understand the value a man can...

This, in addition to what Spaz and stormrider posted.

The fact of the matter is that OLD is not the equal of social interactions in the real world. You are never going to achieve the same level of success as the guys on here that don’t use it, as rule of their life. Keep using it if you want, but the fact remains that you’re using your “wingman”...

You’re lacking serious understanding of yourself and women.

Being single, in itself, is not the center of the issue. The reason why most men hate their marriage is because he married her for validation, and to “nail her down, permanently his” kind of thing, then finds out the woman he married is actually an unstable, emotional train wreck that loses her...

OLD itself is pointless. It doesn’t do anything for you on a personal level. It’s like hiding from real women and connecting with them from the safety of a keyboard. No risk involved. No personal growth. The potential of success with this proposition aside, it’d be weak. Your best chance of...

Well done, bud. I kept a journal when I first started unplugging. Its an excellent way to collect your thoughts, analyze your process. That, and it’s a hell of a boost when you see how much you’ve grown and developed positively.

You didn’t say that. All I saw was “dates” and immediately pictured the standard crap. Meet her, romance her, maybe/hopefully get sex, build a relationship based on the modern idealism that’s not applicable. That sort of thing. If you’re already building sexual tension then you’re good to go...

What it really is, is a suppression of oneself. Holding yourself back, and it builds into mental self-destruction. Damn right that’s why their drinking. It’s not only the fact that marriage can be suppressive to a man’s masculinity, but also financial slavery, illusions he’s been taught since he...

You already know the answer. Go talk to her. Build a sexual attraction and fvck her.

She doesn’t want the romance. She wants the passion and tension of sex. She wants the orgasm. There is always lust between men and women. If he does anything but build sexual tension and move the interaction toward banging her, she won’t have sex with him until she’s got him hooked, then...

Ah.

Good catch, @Atom Smasher, and your compatriots.