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Sadly I think this happens all the time. I've had it done to me. Its a way to push blame on to you or to disqualify you. I have a female coworker who does shvt like this. She will try to put blame on me for things I did not say and did not do. I have to constantly keep her in check. I would...

You also have to ask yourself is this relationship worth it? Is it worth snooping around on his phone? Is it worth going behind his back, asking his friends about his conversations with him? Is it worth the mistrust? I take it you wouldn't be posting here for advice if you fully trusted him...

She broke up with him. You have to remember when a person get dumped / rejected it often sparks even more attraction for the person doing the dumping. The have only been broken up 2 months. It is far to early for anyone to advise this guy to jump into a committed relationship. From his behavior...

Most of the time, guys stay friends with girls they want to have sex with. It is a weak strategy, but one that is employed very often. I can tell you right now, if she wanted to fvck him, he would be inside her no questions asked. I wouldn't get to attached to this guy. As @bcude stated you are...

General Patton's recommended reading list. If you don't believe that General Patton was masculine or manly, your ideas of masculinity are skewed. I agree you need to have other goals, not just reading in your mom's basement all day. If you completely disregard the benefits of reading and the...

My father was cheated on and divorced by my mother. My uncle has been divorced 3 times. My grandmother has been divorced twice. The divorce rate is insane. I have always had negative feelings about marriage. Me ex begged me to marry her. She had a pinterest full of wedding dresses. She told me...

I disagree with this. You can reach your goals by grinding out the work. You can get there faster if you learn from the experience and wisdom of those who have done it before you on top of the grinding. Isn't that why people come to this forum, to share knowledge?

12 Rules for Life by Jordan Peterson is good for taking responsibility for your life

This statement sums up everything you need to do. Improve your career, improve your social life, improve your living conditions. Get some goals together and start taking steps towards achieving them. If you aren't going to do it for yourself, do it for your son. Teach your son what it means to...

I just shaved my beard. This makes me want to grow it back.

You said you were saving for a house. Can you get an apartment in the mean time? I don't think its healthy for you to be spending "family" time with her right now, let alone for you to be sleeping in the same house as her. If you can get an affordable apartment you can have a place for your son...

What everyone else is saying, go no contact. Focus on yourself. Get out of your mom's place. Date other women. It sounds like she is stringing you along while she fvcks other dudes.

she seems like she has a thick neck. other than that pretty eyes. Can't see the rest of her. But damn that mask sure is sexy!

Correct. It is on you to build strong boundaries. If someone crosses those boundaries, there needs to be some kind of repercussion. If you don't have strong boundaries people will take advantage of you and walk all over you. If a woman is treating you like a doormat, it is because you don't have...

You are responsible for your actions, behavior, and emotions. You can not control these things in any other person. If you are in a bad situation it is your responsibility to get out of it. If you let some one disrespect you, it is just that. You are letting them do it. Sometimes it comes down...

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I didn't read the whole article, but I agree. The whole thing reads like a dude wrote it.

This is a very good point. I don't know the whole story. Frankly, it is on her to get the fvck out of the relationship. That's what is messed up to me. If it was so bad that she had to get a restraining order, why was she fvcking him still? Why didn't she turn to her family for help? I feel...

When I see **** like this I automatically assume they are trying to sell something with a target audience of lazier women. As other have stated, with a little bit of work these women can become more attractive. I don't understand why unhealthy lazy body types are celebrated. Shouldn't...

Worked on and off in kitchens for about 7 years. Wait staff would consistently make more than us due to tips. Meanwhile we would show up earlier to prep, create specials, clean the place, and basically run the place. We were also instructing the waitstaff on what to do / what we were serving...