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This. I find that if I read too much into reddit dating posts and even some times posts on this site, I start to develop a negative outlook towards women. Is that a side effect of the red pill? I often ask myself "how can I ever trust a woman again?" There are so many posts of women cheating and...

I think that one was a dud. I am staying away from OLD. I am finding that any time I meet resistance / have to put work into trying to get someone out I end up just nexting them. I feel like there is too many options. I am constantly talking to multiple women on there. I find myself only hooking...

This right here. I am having a hard time getting out of that mindset. I keep approaching interactions with a A+B= C mentality. I've noticed in the past month, I am getting better at getting out of this mindset, but I still have a tendency to fall into it. It seems like when I start hitting...

I had it in my head that if I texted her first after telling her to text me that I would lose frame and lose the interaction. After reviewing the the conversation, that happened to me anyways. I didn't progress anything and kept essentially repeating myself. Next time just cut to the chase and close

I agree with the plate material. That was my goal. I see know that I could have jumped right into dirty talk. I am still feeling out the dating apps. I did not close well at all on this interaction. I felt that if I went for a close at this point it would have come off as desperate. The...

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The past month or so OLD has really clicked with me. I was messaging this woman who I would define as a bratty sub. Things were going well, but I think I let the interaction go. When she said to text her, I think the best response would have been to reply with no. I didn't want to text her...

The pictures of your ex may help with social proofing. If an ex of mine posted pictures of me on her profile, I would be pissed. I get annoyed if people post pictures of me on facebook or instagram with out my knowledge. If you are trying to scam women to fvck you out of pity, I think you need...

A lot of times when I take a woman out it is after work, after the gym, scheduled around a busy schedule. I need to eat. So it makes sense that food or dinner would be involved. I'm not talking about a fancy expensive dinner, but I need to eat. Usually if its a first date I will take them to...

I'm not a fan of being choked. I like to be punched in the gut once or smacked once in a while though. Makes me go harder. Almost like its a fight, she hits me, I rail the **** out of her. Maybe it could be a similar thing? I have heard of people dying from asphyxiation while masturbating...

Settling for complacency at it's best. They are too scared or too lazy to put in the work for a fulfilling relationship so they both settle for a safe and secure one. They both lost attraction years ago and stopped putting the work in to look good. Probably neither of them takes care of...

Here is the method I used with great success. I was going on 2-3 dates a week before Covid. I would open up with a question. My go to was "what are your top 3 restaurants around (City)?" I have unmatched women based on their answers. I would then continue the conversation by building off their...

I think the key is to keep things moving forward. Send a few messages back and forth then move it to texting. Then move it to a phone conversation or try to pin a time to meet. I have not had much luck since the lock down started, but before I would screen girls out with a phone conversation...

LOL. In 6 months I have been living alone, I have been showing up to work 30 mins earlier. I have been falling behind in my work much less. I have been far less stressed about my work in general. I have been able to focus my free time on hitting the gym, my diet, and my hobbies.

I want to start upgrading my wardrobe. I am not good with fashion. I never really had an interest in it. When I go to my barber I tell him to "make it look good." I trust him and he does a great job and occasionally tries different things. I'm clueless as to buying clothes. I try to dress nice...

I got out of a LTR at the beginning of the year. It takes a while to adjust to living alone. I got very used to waking up next to my ex. Try to find some hobbies to keep you busy. Challenge yourself to go out and meet people, both men and women. If you find a place to live in a city, near bars...

I need a haircut for sure. I'm dying to go out and play pool.

Her face scares me. Also she is whiny as shyt. I don't even know what to make of this. I wonder what percentage of women do online sex work as opposed to being strippers and escorts.

How do you get her to invest / put effort in you before you fvck?

Is there any downside to reply with "Wish you luck with your other guy. If it doesn't work out, hit me up"? Then just leave it at that. She probably won't contact you. I think its bullshyt if a girl flakes with no counter offer. I don't bother pursuing at that point. Also, I find it odd that...