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Will do. Wanted to get through all rational male books first..almost done with the first one. Not sure if you’ve read all of them but wondering is the tactical guide one should be next

I can definitely see how that is plausible because it’s happened many times in other situations. For my scenario now, Are you somehow saying she caused me to behave this way or something of that nature? I get what you’re saying but I’m not quite sure Intent..?

I honestly was alpha in all the wrong ways. I’m not feeling sorry for myself but I really was just like the person she had to answer to instead of us sharing a life together. I was arrogant, blunt and my way or the high way...I’m not proud of it and that’s no way to have a relationship. I feel...

In a way I feel like I owe it to her. She’s always stuck by my side through every business and life decision. I wore the pants in the family and I made the decision that she would stay home with the children And I go out to work. Now that I’ve left her with nothing once I can afford to really...

Very sound and great advice. I appreciate it. We have been married 7 years. Separated about a year and a half ago. I told her I wanted a divorce and moved her out for about a 2 months and slept with someone and about 2 months later I wanted her back. She begged me not to leave her and cried for...

I live in a state (in the us) where they are very lenient with everything, gun control, divorce, abortion. I got the papers straight from the courthouse, paid 150 dollar filing fee, put non contested for child support or spousal and the divorce itself and boom, seven days later they declare you...

Haha this is funny. This is living the beta life. I had her sign the papers for no spousal or child support. I’ll take care of my children no matter what a court says and I’ll take care of her too to make sure my kids are well taken care of.

I’m new to this..first post. I posted this on another thread last night but I wanted the advice of themature members group aswell Long story short. I’m 27 in shape good-looking have been married for six years and have two children. I got married when I was 20 young and had my first child at 21...

I have no doubt in my mind that I would still be married right now if I knew how to have an actual relationship with her and not treat her like a sub par plate. And I k ow you think I’m crazy but she was definitely a good one. On the other hand though...FVCK the truth hurts! Haha! It’s just...

This makes sense and I understand. Are you saying though a woman can’t be fully loyal and fulfilled? She has went out on multiple occasions and is always with friends when she doesn’t have the kids (she has them about 60%) she’s a great mother. She has facedtimed the kids when she’s at friends...

I appreciate this and this is the exact advice i’m looking for. My father tells me stuff like this But it’s nice to hear it from other people that I need to get my head out of my ***** and be a man. I’ve never displayed AFC tendencies until five months after I cheated on my wife she told me...

Will do!. So in your opinion... since I have to see this woman all the time, I still think she’s very hot, how do I get past this jealousy? I don’t want some other dude tapping that ass but obviously I know it’s inevitable. It especially sucks because I know she actually is a good one, she’s...

I highly doubt she is and I’m not in denial but I won’t say it’s not possible. In this year of me and her on and off going through this divorce it seems unlikely she hasn’t ****ed someone because I have had about 10 just to drown out the pain which made it worse. The only time in our seven years...

I like this! That was my intention with the dinner, so that we can finally put an end to it either way. Doesn’t change how I feel but it’s a step in a direction. She is all in for the divorce so I guess that’s what I’m gonna have to do. She’s been wanting a divorce for a year now but never...

Good catch. I am sure because Betrayal in my eyes is the ultimate sin in a relationship. She Did want to make it work and we tried for about for five months and I didn’t have the knowledge or will to mend my marriage the way I should have. It’s disgusting really and at this point obviously I...

We met when we were just kids, 17ish. I kind of was always a player but I didn’t like it. I wanted something meaningful at a younger age and when me and her man we just hit it off. We had a really great time and were married for six years but I didn’t know how to be in a marriage. I was young...

I’m doing this. I take the kids about half the time, fully self sufficient, but the gym, somewhat of a social life, (don’t really want friends or to date at all right now) own a business and trying to focus but my personal life is throwing me off. This could’ve been a afc move but I’m already in...

I have had many sincere talks with her, asking her for forgiveness because I committed the ultimate “sin” against her. I was suppose to be the one person to not hurt hurt and I did. I was just young and dumb and have made an honest turned around and believe people deserve redemption. If I...

Long story short. I’m 27 in shape good-looking have been married for six years and have two children. I got married when I was 20 young and had my first child at 21 all with the same woman. When me and my wife first met it was instant attraction and chemistry we couldn’t leave each others side...

You have to go with your gut instinct but first sort through the emotions and never let the fear of loss control you. Only you know what’s best if you don’t fool yourself. That being said..In my opinion you need to drop her only for the fact that you’ll always have that mistrust in the back of...