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I follow the rule of above 18.

We are basically in agreement. I want to emphasize that there is no separation between mind and body.

Bingo! There's no separation between mind and body. What goes on in the mind goes on in the body and visa versa.

Do you think that has something to do with your looks?

I assume/tell the beta Bob's that they are responsible for their lot in life and that they should try to be more rationally selfish. A Regina can cheat and leave a beta Bob just as well as a Stacy.

Sometimes you gotta spend money to make money. Rich people don't just save their money, they look at money as a tool. First the girl has to be attractive enough to make me want to stay with her. Second, she has to be a girl that I like. I don't think to myself that I need to date a woman...

It depends on what you define game as. If game is similar or the same in concept to having good social skills, then doing the above helps with game.

That's a good perspective. The blackpill outlook is what philosophers call psychological determinism. It's a load of garbage.

I think one of the most important traits is that these people enjoy what they do. I have the best results when I'm out and about and making casual conversations with people and enjoying these conversations. I've met women before like this but I'm no PUA.

Men and women are attracted to how each other looks but love the person they get to know. Women want a man who they perceive is above them but to say that I have to date a woman whom I'm not attracted to is bad advice and defeats the purpose of this forum.

This is the wrong approach. Don't think of it as there is a separation of game, looks, or status, just like there is no separation of mind and body. They all go together.

How you look is very much integrated with everything else you do in life, your physical health, emotional health, financial and professional health, etc. The debate over whether which is more important, looks, game, status, ect. is nonsense in my opinion because all of these traits go together...

So that's a matter of experience. Pattern recognition. Are they doing it to politely end the conversation? Are they managing your perceptions (manipulation)? Or do they being candid (honesty in 'motion')?

Masculinity = Effective control of the environment Femineity = Admiration of masculinity. George Harrison - What Is Life (youtube.com) People don't usually think of an artist as a masculine character because how people typically associate masculinity and how they associate with a typical...

I place experience above 'theory' Knowledge requires experience and logic. I experience the world first hand with my personal experience and observations while out and about. The pure 'black pill' is nonsense.

Testosterone is a key component for masculinity, but it's not the only ingredient

I've had this many times when I was younger. The girl would have crawled through a minefield to talk to me or hang out with me. Girls do these things all of the time but only with men they really like. A woman's behavior tells you everything about how much she likes you.

Don't take it seriously and turn it into a big joke. Have fun.

What Stoicism fails to recognize is that there are reasons for the emotions you have. Repressing emotions indicate mental illness, and women don't like men with mental illnesses. There are circumstances where suppressing emotions is appropriate however.

Think about your question carefully. Be specific and write it down. From what I can tell, your issue is either you have some fear about taking action or you just don't know what it is that you want. If you don't know what you want to do with your life, then my advice is to do some writing...