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Ahhhh dammit hahaha. Wish I would've seen this sooner I would've said that. Following coach Corey Wayne he teaches not to ignore so all I said was I can't tonight, sorry. Didn't get a response but just found out she blocked me on IG/FB.

As talked about in another post, my gf of a year broke up w/ me a little less than a week ago. She said she didn't wanna do it anymore and asked for all her stuff back. I didn't wine or plea or beg, I complied and left all of her belongings in her car while she was at work. Went full NC, she...

Hate to say it but you're right, sex was everything in our "relationship." Or relationsh!t as I like to call it. When we were having sex (which was a lot), things were good. But when we weren't, or we were separated for an extended period of time, that's when things started falling apart.

I know people say that the ex is no longer the person that you fell in love with, they've changed too much. I keep thinking that in fact I never actually knew my ex, I just thought I did. What I really did know was my ideal girlfriend, the ideal her. Also, thinking back, I think she was and...

Let your ego go sometimes man. Something I've had to learn, and continue to learn everyday is that part of being a man is owning up to your mistakes and admitting when you're wrong. It's amazing how defusing it can be in a heated argument, literally takes all of their power and hatred and all of...

We have been exclusive for about 4 months, dating/hooking up for 7. It wasn't until AFTER we were exclusive that I found out she had previously been FWB w/ this guy who she is still "friends" with. After I found that out, my spidey senses started kicking it. I didn't say anything before...

One of the guys she used to be sort of a FWB type, they never dated but hooked up for about 2 months. She admittedly said he still has feelings for her, and periodically professes his love to her. He used to call her 4-5 times a day, it's been cut back to about once every other day. What...

Is it they're more fragile? Emotional? Afraid of being alone? Need constant validation? Is this an unhealthy woman's mentality? I've never been the type of person to reignite old flames, even on a dry spell. Maybe it's just my view of sexuality and crossing that boundary between friend and...

I'm really glad to see this from you phil. Turning things around, good for you.

So prior to SS, I met this absolutely beautiful woman (8-8.5 in my book), whom I had a great connection with. We went out for a few months, slept together multiple times, and eventually things just fizzled out because I didn't know how to properly date at that time. It didn't end bad or...

This might just be for my own good but I wanted to give my perspective on all the red flags I ignored. Feel free to share similar stories or comment. She romanticized to her friends about how we met, basically lying to them, misconstruing the story, even though it was a great story by itself...

The whole social media thing is more for her wellbeing. She's told me before it's helped her move on with past exes. Great post all around though.

Was going on 5 days NC with an ex that broke things off. I saw it coming, got prepared, and basically just let her do it. As much as it hurt I knew it was for the best, and I assumed if she wanted to reach out she would. Well, we ran into each other yesterday unexpectedly. Both of us were...

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I think I'm at your second point then. I could feel it coming. Not that I don't have self respect or anything, I just didn't want to live in regret. Hard to dump something you're invested into. I let her dump me, and I'll be using that as motivation in the gym for the next couple months.

With the mindset of still always willing to walk away, would it be better to dump or get dumped? I can see both sides. Dumping someone makes them wonder why they weren't "good enough" so to speak, even if it was abrupt, or coming to an end anyway. However, if she dumps you, and you don't...

Run. Run and don't look back. Editited for some more practical advice: she's damaged goods brother. It's not your responsibility to "fix" her, she's not going to change, believe me. She'll continue this until you spiral into nothing and doubt your entire f*cking existance. Please hear my advice...

Bruh, let me tell you... I'm going through the same sh*t. I believe this is all learned behavior at some point either in her childhood, or past experiences and relationships. I truly believe the number one most important thing in any relationship is how two people solve issues. Some questions...

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Strictly oral stimulation. She would get off 3-4 times, and EVERY time she would ejaculate. I'm talking like a faucet, on my face/sheets/bed, all soaked. We had a toy I kept at my place, it was a lot of fun. Only squirter I've been with out of 50+ girls.