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So I’ve been NC with my now ex for about 3 weeks. I have no desire to reach out to her, however she still has some stuff of mine that’s important I get back. What’s the best (read: least drama) way to go about getting it back?

Going to strongly disagree with you on this one. I don’t know where you got your information from but I live in San Francisco, I’m white, and consistantly clean house with every race. Also, Oakland, which is just across the bridge from San Francisco, is one of the most diverse cities in the...

Jesus this post wreaks of neediness. Look man, women need to FEEL something. The dating and courtship never ends. You’re thinking like a man right now. “In the past I only had to squeeze her leg.” Yea, because her interest was high. Bringing this up is useless to her, she will only resent...

Oahu. Very touristy but the talent is endless

Of course. Not just on the beach, everywhere.

Living the life of Forgetting Sarah Marshall right now. I bought a vacation package a year ago and had to travel by may, decided to invite this girl I’d been seeing. Things were on the down slide for a while but I (mistakenly) thought it’s better than going alone. We ended up breaking up 2...

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Not really sure if this is an issue or not, but not typical of girls I’ve dated. In the past I always wait for the girl to initiate contact, in which case I set up a date and time for us to meet up. This girl however will initiate contact, but deny my plans. She will then come up with her own...

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A girl I had been seeing caught me in a pretty big lie, and I’ll most likely never hear from her again. The instant she walked away it made me realize why the f*ck do I lie? Is it because I’m afraid I won’t be accepted? Trying to be something I’m not? Abundance mentality not in full affect right...

Look, I get it. Women like to shop. Maybe not all, but most. I noticed a weird change recently with this girl. She got invited to a wedding and she went all out for it. Shoes, new dress, even a new hair style. She’s not even in it, just a guest. Very fishy. Then, on two separate occasions she...

I have a customer facing job, and interact with thousands of people every day, many of them attractive females. I’ve yet to come up with a sure fire way to number close while still trying to be professional. Any ideas? It’s kind of a slippery slope. I wouldn’t ever think my job would be at risk...

Listen man, if you stop dating and courting your woman, she’s going to imprint this mentality that you are using her for sex. Women want to be romanced. So set dates, stay the f*ck off the phone, and let her do most of the initiating. This is not blue pill or beta, it’s just a fact of a LTR...

Man you sound exactly like where I was not that long ago. I came to these forums just like you did. Everyone told me to get out, but I didn’t listen. Don’t get me wrong, I learned A LOT from that tumultuous relationship, but I wish I would’ve listened the first time to everyone here. Don’t do...

The girl that brought me to this forum over 4 years ago, texts me every year on my bday. Used to have major oneitis with this girl, and blew it majorly. I stopped responding last year, however this year I thought what the hell, and responded. She told me she thinks of me every February, and...

They want equal rights, equal pay, etc. Yet... no mention of divorce laws.

In a divorce there are two proceedings; a long term marriage, and a short term marrriage. A long term marriage is considered anything 10 years and above. In (most) cases where the court heavily favors the woman, this would mean the man would have to pay alimony FOR LIFE. Now you can try to...

There’s a scene in ‘The Hitman’s Bodyguard’ where Ryan Reynolds character tells his woman “he forgives her” and it blows up on him. Samuel L Jackson’s character laughs in his face telling him basically women don’t like to be forgiven because that insinuates that they did something wrong. Pretty...

Normally I would agree with you, however do to our careers we won’t see each other for over a week. She’s going to know somethings up here in the next day or two.

I’m almost embarrassed to say but I feel I need to grow and learn as well. She’s constantly pushing boundaries. Last night for example she told me she was staying at a “friends” house, a guy who she had never mentioned before. I told her have fun. I knew the fact she even considered staying over...