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I don't think he's alpha. I cringe every time I use that word, because it's usage is completely retarded nowadays but I feel alpha is almost synonymous with 'leader' ie. others choose to follow him. Just because a guy has high status doesn't make him a strong leader that others want to follow...

But that's what I mean: What use is it having 1000 orbiters if you're not attracted to any of them?

The other thing is even if the above is true, it's still the women who will lose out in the end. They'll have all these sub-par orbiters giving them validation, but they'll never find the guys they desire or they'll mistakenly gloss over them thinking they can 'do better'. Suddenly they'll find...

Actually I think it's the complete opposite. When I think of the most impressive men I've met in my life, they've nearly always been humble and always willing to help. They don't go around bullying people - only weak and insecure guys do that. In fact I honestly believe this is what draws so...

Well this was my thinking. He doesn't take care of himself but he's been pretty consistent with this his whole life. The wife is clearly the more attractive of the 2 so I'm inclined to agree with you on this. And this is where I feel the problem lies: Women of this generation just aren't...

I disagree. I've never seen guru fishing for validation. He's stated his success/experiences but it's been from the perspective of "this is what I've done and these are my experiences" as opposed to "this is what I've done, look how great I am". Maybe a few posts have had a hint of egotism but I...

But @guru1000 has said it himself: He has nothing to prove. Personally I couldn't give a damn what anyone thinks of me on these boards.. I imagine he's the same. Seriously, think about it: If you're a high-earning man who has his pick of the women, what possible benefit is there? Imagine we...

But that's exactly the point: He has to put up with it because of the threat of divorce. That's why I'm against modern marriage.

This reminds me of that scene in American Beauty - one of the most depressing I've seen in any movie, ha. Well this is where I find my parents relationship quite rare. When I was chatting with my mother, she said when myself and my siblings were younger she used to be so tired but would still...

So I was out playing golf with a buddy of mine and he randomly mentioned he wasn't on the best of terms with his wife at the moment - they've been married for ~10 years or so. Apparently since the kids were out of the house for the weekend the wife had promised him sex during that time. The...

I've definitely noticed this. I've always thought the solution was for the older generations (ie. grandparents) to pass on their wisdom and remind them that their looks won't last forever and they need to choose wisely while they have the power. However with this single mother bull**** being...

Haha, thanks I guess. I'll start by saying I don't believe in 10s.. nor would I ever rate a girl like that, since I believe it's purely subjective at that point. Having said that, the girl you rated as your 10 is definitely top tier in my books too. As for your girls, I'd give 8, 8, 7.5 based...

Not sure it'd ever be possible to get a consensus on a 10

It's interesting because on the face of it status and whatever you want to call an 'alpha male' are very similar, but I don't believe they're the same. This guy has status for sure. The way I look at it is this: If you stripped a man of all his wealth and status, and put him in a group of say...

Doesn't appeal to me one bit. Unfortunately I'm very possessive / protective over the girl I'm with, ha.

I think that's true, and if he wasn't so hostile about it I'd agree it's not a problem. What I get irritated by is the aggressive attacks in response. I know it's just ego-defence, but there's still no need for it. The whole point of 'discussion' boards is we can discuss and at least be civil...

I don't think anyone disagrees with this - everyone should be true to themselves. The issue is that Neil is constantly seeking approval for his actions. If he didn't give a sh!t he'd be enjoying his life rather than constantly making posts about what other people rate his girls. Not to mention...

How the hell do you stay that lean? I'm assuming your diet is pretty strict?

I've always figured because of being the passive sex, and having men approach on the regular, that women are unlikely to fall into that position. I guess if all men approached regularly and were having success with multiple women they'd probably be in the same boat.The difference is men have to...