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Everyone wants a hot compatible girl lol. And there are millions, they're just not right outside your door. You have to explore and find them. In a city of five million there are plenty for one man. And if that's not enough for you, then that speaks more about you than them. You sound like a...

In regards to women your behavior has to be innocent enough that HR won't can your as$ if they find out. That means you'll be all business with the occasional witty joke about grabbing lunch with the girl, and even that should only be done with women showing obvious interest that are themselves...

If a no is no big deal then how many times does she have to give you excuses and say no for you to get the picture? She's not interested rn, quit asking her to hang out, the balls in her court. Be chill, respective, keep the convos about your projects and if she flirts then tease back, but going...

That's a dangerous oversimplification. On average I'd agree that a girl with sub par looks has to offer more things to get the attention of men, but there are plenty of hot girls that aren't trash. Sure you can compromise your self-respect to keep a hotter woman, but I'm of the opinion that...

The reason this relationship rustled your jimmies is because you identified with it so much. People make mistakes, you mistook her for someone of better character, now you learned that was wrong, why is that something to be upset about? You just saved yourself so much time and frustration. Admit...

From what you said earlier sounds like you Facebook stalked her. And it sounds like you're trying to convince yourself the problem is her, not your approach. From what I can tell she was right about you not taking no for an answer. The one thing you have right is yes single women with children...

What you're describing is attraction changing, waxing and waning, which is what I said. At this very moment there is no attraction between them. Yes, that can change. You said the attraction is still there, which if true she wouldn't be pushing him away. It might come back, but right now it's...

@Mike32ct is on the right track. Networking and building connections is done by finding a genuine interest in other people. The root cause of your behavior is that you're validated by what others think of you, rather than validated by yourself. Work on your inner game, master some skills, work...

No, it's not. She told him off, that's aversion, not attraction. He feels her last texts were nasty, that's aversion not attraction. Attraction is not static, it's always fluctuating.

When women see that you're easy and have little self respect they go along with it and treat you like garbage too. Bonus for her here because she is in a position of power with you, so she gets a big ego boost and power trip. She probably would have loved it if you kept your cool, but seems you...

You should make your own choices. I would be fairly professional and respond to any advances or flirty stuff from her with a 'lol' or smile, but nothing more because I don't want to stir drama that can get me canned, and more importantly because she burned that bridge. Let her think you have...

First of all that's a dangerous game, she could probably get you fired if you push it too far. Second of all why are you making yourself so available? What's the rush? Quit trying to close so fast. Keep flirting and pretend to be on the fence until she's practically begging to suck your kock in...

Have fun with it

It's not enough to simply have them, you have to make serious progress in overcoming them, that's one very reliable source of self confidence. There's no magic bullet, you have to know when to cut losses and when to dig your heels in. You're bound to make mistakes and your recovery from them is...

The problem is making that desire a woman's problem, which was the OPs implication. Do you have some empirical evidence to back this up or is this conjecture? You've been out of the market so where exactly are you drawing these conclusions from? I agree that online dating is skewed towards...

The only issue I have with this 'all women are children' mentality is that it can be used as a mechanism to avoid fessing up to leading poorly or living aimlessly, which just perpetuates and affirms the believe that they're children. That's why a man's perspective on the matter is so important...

If you live and die by a woman's fart, you really have very little going on in your life and deserve nothing. All you're really telling me is you have very low or no aspirations in life, and are as fragile as a rose. To vilify them for your own shortcomings is just doubling down on your refusal...

You can find threads where users posted pictures of themselves, maybe you'll be pleasantly surprised. The ones that did post were fit and good looking. People come here for all sorts of reasons and don't typically tell all their friends about it. I agree that forums like these are an absolute...

It again sounds like bad priorities and low aim. Why would validation from women or anyone for that matter be so important that it ruins your life? A man should be a source of love, not a black hole for it. A woman should be an optional cherry on the sundae that is your wonderful life, which...

At no point in this post have you mentioned what you enjoy sharing with women, or what your long term goals are with women. Instead it seems you approach women to take, and sounds like you have no real idea what you want to take. You expect the woman to decide what you want, and then also do all...