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  1. BeTheChange

    Success Journal - The journey to actualising one's potential

    Lesson of the day. Property is an illiquid market. On a localised basis property is even more illiquid, making it incredibly difficult to determine accurate valuations, which are often lazily based on the most recent sales price. My mum told me a story that a few years back she was hoping to...
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    Pension Contributions

    So my current employer appears to have quite a generous pension scheme. They will double whatever contribution you make to your pension plan. For example I currently contribute the minimum of 3% of salary and the employer contributes an additional 6% of salary. E.g If I paid in $100 a month...
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    The Four Types of Men

    LOL. Internet warrior tells me he can beat me in a fight. Ok then. I went to Dubai with my paramour you moron, all mentioned in previous posts. I doubt you have a "better" job than me. All the 46 year olds in my line of work are making almost a mil in dollar terms. Are YOU? Nope, didn't think...
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    The Four Types of Men

    Indeed. One of my salsa instructors is broke and ugly and gets more and better quality pvssy in one week than OP gets in an entire year. OP would like the world to be as binary as he preaches here as it would justify his current predicament as the "best" way to live. If I was single at 46...
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    A frustrating position to be in

    Invited her out for some dancing on Friday. Said she was too busy and we'd catch up when she's back from Japan in a few weeks. Assumed she must have been busy until she leaves at the end of the month. A few days later she makes a facebook status saying she's looking forward to the "Pizza...
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    Monogamy or beyond? What would be your most ideal relationship set-up?

    She's is completely loyal, loving and devoted. I love her but can fvck other women on the side without getting attached emotionally. She would be unaware of this (again due to the self respect issues other posters have mentioned). This is pretty much the situation I had with my ex mid way...
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    Success Journal - The journey to actualising one's potential

    I will need to check these out! Debt is certainly a double edged sword and the interest expense alone makes up half of my fixed costs. First property is finally finished. Spent the last two weeks furnishing the place and trying to get tenants in. I officially have my first tenant (Airbnb) who...
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    A frustrating position to be in

    Cancelled my plans with her in favour of hitting salsa with a few mates on Friday. If she hadn't been so ambiguous in her interest I would have kept my word. Told her she was welcome to come along. See if she bites. Can't complain too much. It's been fairly effortless sex with an attractive...
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    The significance of a "couples profile pic"

    This is what I mean by over 40 and out of touch. I see the same issues with those who advise against texting. Its a generational thing. You need to understand the context from which people give advice. Will make your life a lot easier here.
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    A frustrating position to be in

    Had a day to mull it over. Scarcity not a major issue in reality. Have a few active plates. Definitely see your point on her scarcity though...would she be as "valuable" if her attention weren't so limited? Probably not. Pedastalised this salsa chick due to the checklist I have as an "ideal"...
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    The significance of a "couples profile pic"

    If you want to bang other women there is! Also it's worth taking anyone who's over 40's advice on Facebook with a grain of salt. It's a generational thing. And most won't understand. Facebook can provide a tremendous amount of social proof if used correctly. I recently had multiple women...
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    A frustrating position to be in

    Two remarkably different posts from yourself and fastlife. Both have merit and I’ll address some of your questions. Two of our three dates have involved salsa. I had to initiate several times for the first date, to the point where a posters here would flat out assume zero interest (e.g. she...
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    A frustrating position to be in

    Surprised you're still latching on to this binary position. Disqualifies practically all women who are still single by 21. And given my ex was a 19 year old virgin when we met I'm really beginning to think this is a poor barometer for a woman's overall character within reason. Each to their...
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