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  1. Modern Man Advice

    Disqualifying Women

    Oh, 100%! Well done, if you have something going for you and value yourself enough, you can still get laid as much as a guy that will tolerate that type of low-hanging fruit girl. The difference is you are elevating your game to a different level and solidifying your masculine energy. Again...
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    Sweet girl turned ghetto on me

    I swear some of us never learn. Invited a 19yr old to a ".... and drink" festival. "maybe it was the acid we took". Nice! You must be trolling. Let's just say you got lucky that the worst part was her acting ghetto. I guess if we don't hear from you, we know where you are. Modern Man Advice
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    I’m seriously stuck at the crossroads and I need any help/guidance that I can get, please.

    Let's hope your wife or her lawyer doesn't find your post or say bah bah to everything you own (unless you signed a prenup). I do not know why guys keep making that same mistake. Why would you vent such a high-stakes and legal matter in an online public forum for all to see and to be used...
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    Asked my boss out

    If you are actively looking for a new job, yeah pursue her (as long as you see signs of high interest). If you value your job and do not have another lined up, then don't think with your penis. Modern Man Advice
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    status trumps masculinity

    I know most people are obsessed with a one-fits-all answer to make life simpler. However, nothing is. Nor supposed to be. Masculine and feminine energies are real, hopefully, that is out of the question. But regardless of the biological gender, we are human so we are bound to have a common...
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    What it means when a girl says "I'm busy"

    Busy means I've got more important things than you. Not hard to understand. Busy is real but no one is ever that busy to not take: 1 min to text 5-10 mins for a call 1-2 hours to meet up So in dating busy with no alternative simply means you are not a priority. Modern Man Advice
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    Girl flakes as im ten mins from picking her up

    Like I've said to other members in the past, stop trying to analyze her behavior. First, we will never fully understand it, second, it will not be constructive for you anyway. Let's give her the benefit of the doubt, and maybe her dad did have a medical emergency. At least she had the decency...
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    Would you text or wait her to text again after canceling a meeting?

    This is good timing for this post as I recently published an article about the importance of vetting women out during dating. As Barrister said, you were correct to check on her. But yes, not rescheduling or proposing another time is a bit of a red flag. I don't expect to do so right away...
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    How do you guys handle plates that want too text a lot?

    I wouldn't drop her. He has high interest and you are into her. I also respect your stance on texting, however, that is quite common in women that age, or heck people, in general, these days. I am like you, texting should be short, concise, and with an end goal which is to interact in person...
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    Going on a trip to Spain

    My advice? Stop thinking about it and enjoy. And above all enjoy yourself. Modern Man Advice
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    I’m in a huge dilemma!

    Well hopefully you don't own assets either separately or worse together, or your post will be part of the evidence of you being at fault and therefore losing everything you have and what you don't have to your current wife. Obviously, you are unhappy and unfulfilled, otherwise, you wouldn't...
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    Catfished!

    Happened to me once or twice. And like you, I try to be respectful even if they aren't to me and tried to deceive me. My actions and mindset are not dependent on others' actions/mindset so I like to be a gentleman and kind regardless. Both times I just looked at it as a learning experience, and...
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    Ding dong the witch is dead rip queen elizabeth

    Didn't know Queen Elizabeth personally so hard to say. I always like to treat people with respect, even if I don't agree with them. Woman or not, Queen or not, a human being has died so we should at the very minimum call her by their name. But if you must know, I am not keen on monarchies or...
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    How to run a LTR successfully - Learnings from a 6 year LTR

    Solid points. Keeping in mind romantic relationships should never be the center of a man's universe. They are solely a compliment to a man's life. I would only add: 9 . Never allow a woman to get comfortable - This means as I said above, not making her the center of your universe and...
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    Fighting the defeatist mindset ( how to permantly recover a broken man)

    From my own personal experience, a life lived indulged in modern distractions, along with committing to a toxic LTR of 7 years left me looking myself in the mirror and unable to recognize who that person was. A huge sense of shame, confusion, anger, depression, and isolation took over my brain...
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    Field Research: Men's Coaching

    I agree. And that is why I don't engage in every single post here in SS. 90% is always about women. Women are fun, and if you are fortunate enough a good woman can push you and challenge you but they are most times a distraction. Men are simply way too distracted or what I call p***y whipped...
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    Field Research: Men's Coaching

    As I mentioned earlier to another member, LTR is only a small fraction of our lives as men. And it should be only a small fraction. We enter and agree to LTR for two reasons: 1) Build/establish our own tribe (aka family) 2) Procreate Men should have a much deeper relationship with life. I...
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    Field Research: Men's Coaching

    Thanks for taking the time to respond. I am curious to learn about your relationship issues, but just know that maintaining romantic relationships goes beyond the usual "game" mentality. Let's put it this way, maintaining LTR is only a consequence of your inner foundation and mind frame...
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    How Porn Addiction Destroys Men’s Brains and How to Escape It

    Same issue. Actually, it is the core of the issue. But it appears you do not see it, and that is the issue. Sex is not a social transaction. It was never meant to be a surface-level transaction, at least not in the development of our specific species which the closest are the chimps. This is...
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    How Porn Addiction Destroys Men’s Brains and How to Escape It

    Do you think masturbating with someone's body is the Chimpanzee or Bonobo way? Modern Man Advice
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