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  1. Modern Man Advice

    Average looking (gold digger) girl uses dating app to meet millionaires and travel!

    You are being generous by describing her as "average". I'd label her below average. But anyone's perspective her of her does not matter. In OLD she is a young woman that has all her teeth. Many, many, many guys would be glad to match with her. The problem isn't her, period. But I am not sure...
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    Why I recommend the Lone Wolf Path over Social Circle Path

    I do recommend both, with a tendency to lean towards the lone wolf path. Especially in the beginning of building yourself as a man. People can drain your energy, distract you, and drag you down. On the other hand, the right people will uplift you, challenge you, and encourage you. But those...
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    Conflict after 3 months

    That's what a girl would say to her guy. You messed up there. In the greater scope of things, she has shown plenty of interest, effort, and consistency. She did not invite you this one time, and you get all defensive? And worse confront her? Nope, man. You simply should not be phased, and if...
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    OLD is rigged by the companies according to this video...

    But hey "I use it as another option and get laid", and while that statement is slightly true and you can get laid from these platforms, you then ARE the problem. You continue to play their game. You continue to put all the power to women. And worse, you continue to devalue yourself and create a...
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    Long distance relationships (LDRs)

    If there is no real and concrete plan to eventually (in less than 1 year) move to the same city then it is a lost cause. I do not believe in LDR as there are too many unknowns and risks/temptations associated with being apart. Physical touch and intimacy are critical and not having physical...
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    Field Research: Men's Coaching

    It can be expensive, yes. And it can go many ways, like any relationship there is no guarantee of compatibility. I have turned people down for coaching simply cause it is not the right fit and I am not interested in the profit. Try to find someone local that you can interact with in person...
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    how to message women (to get a date)

    I def don't spend that much time/energy getting a date. I create a "foundational" rapport and initial commonality with the girl. I always sexualize the convo early on to make sure she sees me with those eyes. I am also direct with my approach and let her know what the plan is. I don't give her...
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    Bald White Guy Goes to Tokyo,Japan {NSFW}

    I have first-hand experience. I spent some time in Japan (it was one of my bucket list destinations) and absolutely loved it. ***Keep in mind, it is crucial to understand that how you are treated as a foreign tourist is very different than how you get treated if you are a foreign resident.***...
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    Latinas and Eastern European women

    Keep in mind we shouldn't generalize everything in life. I've dated Latinas and never found it too hard to seduce, most of them turned out to be LTR. They were all pretty smart and pretty freakish. I am currently dating an Eastern European girl and she is brilliant (and super sexy and...
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    I permanently ban from Reddit

    A little more tact would only extend your interactions on Reddit, but any RP or MRA tendencies and you will be banned eventually. I only use Reddit for my business. I have also gotten banned from a few communities there. It is pretty clear there is an agenda and inclusive way they want you to...
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    Ex girlfriend straight up contacts me saying she wants kids with me?

    Stand firm. Move on. This is why NC is so important, delete her number, unfriend/unfollow, block if you need to but cut contact. It is only detrimental to your masculine energy and mental health. Those are two way more important things than any woman or p***y. Continue on your path and enjoy...
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    She's taking it waaaaay too slow. Is she actually into me?

    It is clear she is still making up her mind about you. She is interested, but probably unsure if you're worth her time and body. But if you are enjoying time with her, and more importantly enjoying yourself then keep seeing her. I do prefer to hold out with a girl I am actually interested in...
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    What sport do you play in high school?

    Played Football aka soccer all my life. Most, if not all, countries outside the USA consider Football a religion. So you are born into it, grow up with it, and become one with it. I had the chance to play professionally until I got into a car accident. I still play competitively 11v11 and 7v7...
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    I’m seriously stuck at the crossroads and I need any help/guidance that I can get, please.

    Yeah, that's one of my biggest fights. Men don't have nearly enough resources, outreachs, and support systems. So I understand you, however, do know that when it comes to legal matters where you could find yourself involved and impacted you should avoid discussing it openly. Since the judicial...
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    SW15 Appreciation Thread, recover well brother!

    @SW15 No need to go into details, that is your personal and private life. Wishing you a speedy recovery so you can get back to your normal life and contribute to other men's lives. Modern Man Advice
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    Should I talk with her daily?

    Tip: Don't make it into a rocket science equation. Do what you feel like doing at the moment and what has worked for you in the past. The moment you overthink it, that is the moment you lost perspective and will most likely mess up. But if you must know, generally speaking, women are attracted...
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    Anyone Mewing?

    I used to. It does help but it takes a lot of work and dedication. And it is not an overnight process. Now I just chew gum when I drive or play sports. Chewing becomes second nature very easily and it gives you more or less the same jawline. Modern Man Advice
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    Getting the runaround when trying to set a date

    There is not much to be added to what has already so eloquently been stated: Low interest, she has several other better options, she wants to get your free attention, etc, etc. I realize I keep repeating myself on this forum but I have one dating rule: Compliance or move on. I would only give...
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    "Coming on too strong" test

    I second @Howiestern comment. When approaching or "gaming" women you cannot have a one-fits-all approach. It takes finesse and like Howie said calibration. I've said this a few times here before, not just in "gaming" but in any human interaction, the ability to be socially aware and read...
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