Those are the 4 pillars of masculinity? Man, no wonder why men are weak these days. That is truly disappointing to hear men think those are masculinity pillars.
What about honor, respect, courage, etc, etc?
Now if you meant that those are factors that come into play in the art of seduction...
It's because women aren't stupid. They know your agenda. And that is your issue. You go out to get laid, and women will sense that in your every approach and interaction. Kissing for most women now is like shaking hands so I wouldn't call that a win.
For them to decide to go home with you, they...
That's what women say, lose that. You are young, and even if you are mature enough, again, you STILL have a LONG way.
Don't be offended by someone saying that, that is also a women's emotional reaction. It simply means you are just starting your path to manhood.
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Regardless of whether she is "one of those", never get dinner for a first date. It simply isn't worth it unless it is a place you def want to try and would go to regardless. Even then it might send the wrong message, it's about earning that type of investment and use of your resources.
Go...
There have been similar posts about similar situations. My advice has always been there same:
Your children will grow stronger and better human beings with a father that had the self-respect and self-love to walk away from anything detrimental. They will be more functional adults with two...
Reaching out to members to give you examples of how to reply to a girl that clearly thinks low of you is not a good use of our time or yours or this forum. What you should be seeking is perspective and mindset advice.
And with that, she clearly does not respect you so why invest your valuable...
I wouldn't necessarily advise you to start playing mind games to test her interest. That is a feminine tactic.
Simply keep doing what you are doing and enjoy it. The only different thing is what another member suggested which is to start adding other types of activities that aren't necessarily...
I mean if it is the loss of a close relative, I'd expect her to stay behind and be next to me. But again, depends on how close of a relative this is. If she knows your relationship with the deceased is not close and you are not in pain then it is more like an obligation for you to go then I...
They're out there. Just probably staying away from marriage or dating altogether. But especially marriage, it is nothing but a liability for men.
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Good stuff man. It feels good, so savor it.
Just play it cool, don't become too attached or needy. I know it will be tempting since she is your only plate now but pretend you have 5 other plates (or even better get them for real) and don't give her too much importance. Not saying pretend to...
Man, right when she asked "you don’t mind if my ex stops by to say hey real quick do you" I would have ditched her. Nobody has time for that kind of ratchet behavior. That is a big sign of disrespect.
On the other hand, as LARider said, that other girl nailed it by realizing what was happening...
Hard to say, nothing is so black and white. Depends on so many factors:
1) What was/were the reason/s for their break up? Change in her behavior is very vague.
2) How much they grew individually during this 1 year apart? What kind of self-development did they have over this time?
3) Did they...
I'd love to get more context on this. What's the back story here? Try to be as objective as possible when telling both sides of the story.
And it would also help to share more about you. Mental health is important and should always be prioritized and never stigmatized. We all have mental health...
This is the type of stuff that fascinates me: neuroscience and masculinity. Testosterone has become the scapegoat/root cause of society's violence. Effectively, men have been demonized and I don't mean that with any victimized tone. But the concept of masculinity has been watered down to suit...
You both acted childish. Neither of you should be in a relationship until you are ready. You are both clearly not ready. Not to mention you are 21, you should be having a blast, not committing.
Continue dating or better yet focus on bigger things.
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There are ways to naturally boost your testosterone. Most products out there are just that, products. Meaning they are pro-profit. Like pharmaceuticals and the "health industry", they are designed to make a profit by usage dependency of their products and services but not actually addressing the...
On paper, option B is the way to go. But I can tell you from recent experience, the body wants what the body wants. So there is a balance.
Recently I started dating girl 1. She is good-looking, above average I would say, guys def notice her. She runs her own business, is intelligent, driven...
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