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    How Porn Addiction Destroys Men’s Brains and How to Escape It

    I am unsure what NoFap does to "gaming". They are too many variables to take into consideration when it comes to picking up girls for semen retention to be a noticeable factor. When it comes to no masturbation and no porn, I see it more as a practice to correctly rewire your brain, elevate your...
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    Gf didn't come home one night

    A few things 1) Her not coming home is necessarily a sign of cheating, but it will also be an unknown and you have to live with that. 2) Regardless of whether she cheated or not, the real question is do you trust her or not? 3) Trust is a must, foundation, and pillar in a relationship. Without...
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    Thoughts on women with dogs

    I agree there is a trend/correlation between some single women with dogs. But in my humble opinion, men overthink this dating thing too much like almost anything on this forum. Just get to know the person and if you have solid social and "game" skills, read the situation accordingly, but let's...
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    Do you think a man should try ReferenceMaxxing on OLD to impress women to date him?

    I find it more sad than funny. Is it funny? Yes, to some extent. But the reality is that it screams validation which for men is a big no-no. At the end of the day, you can only lure customers to come into your store but the question is can you keep them loyal to your brand? By the way, what...
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    How to command presence if youre young?

    Don't look or act like one. You can still be young and be mature and hold a frame. Body posture is important. Hold your back straight, as if you wanted to be taller. Good body posture translates into confidence and respect. Dress well. You don't need to wear a suit and tie but wear clothes...
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    Does Displaying High SMV Hurt your Chances?

    I think it's a pretty solid frame. I just hope it is true and you are not pretending to walk on water. Displaying high SMV can go a few different ways. I've heard from girls I dated whom I've run across randomly and we sort of reminisce on ol' times and that they thought I was a man...
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    "Zombie Ice" will double the expected sea level rise from melting glaciers

    While I appreciate the information, I am very cautious to share info like that because it can easily create panic. Human beings, generally speaking, is a very panicky species. Let's keep in mind, that like any virus, war, economic recession, or climate change, those all have natural cycles. We...
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    Friendship or Relationship??

    Nor she would say it, and even if she does, words don't matter. It comes down to you being able to gauge her intentions by her actions when she is around you. If I am being honest, unless you are an experienced man that can understand and read women better than most men, your best bet is to...
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    Friendship or Relationship??

    Then I misread your post, and I apologize. If she is offering a platonic friendship then cut contact (and follow through within) and move on. If, on the hand, she is offering a friendship to establish a foundation because she sees potential in the future that is a different story. But...
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    Friendship or Relationship??

    It sounds like you might be physically and emotionally attracted to her, so platonic friendship is out of the question. But a friendship does need to be established for any romantic relationship to be healthy. The question is whether you want to establish that type of connection with her and...
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    You're not alpha...

    You're not Alpha or Sigma or a Gansta if you need to prove it or have validation for it. The moment you question yourself whether you are something or not, that is the moment you stopped being that (assuming you ever were that). Furthermore, I personally don't believe in such concepts. I can...
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    Is there any hope? 37 year old and broken

    I will use some of master's Oogway wisdom: "Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a gift. That is why it is called the present." Go and now do the exact opposite of what you did for 15 years. \ Modern Man Advice
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    Sabataging oneself.

    It sounds more like overthinking under cognitive distortion. The first step was to recognize it and be aware of it, and you are. But more than ignoring or stopping it, it is about redirecting your attention when it happens. Or even better learn to recognize the trigger points so you know it's...
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    Dating Struggles

    The expectations that come with dating, and especially a first date. Rarely is anyone themselves on the first date and rarely is anybody willing to commit to 2 or 3 dates to give it a fair chance to find out if there is a connection. Not to mention that OLD has cultivated a revolving-door and...
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    Field Research: Men's Coaching

    Thanks for taking the time to respond. See my responses above.
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    I think I got rejected cause I said I liked Andrew tate

    Haha I dunno why I found this funny. No offense to you OP, I mean you got some action so kudos. It's more because: 1) Who brings up Andrew Tate on a first date? And why would you respond to that question knowing most women hate him? I like the honesty, but if your plan was to bang her you...
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    Submission vs autonomy

    I like your points. And I do agree a healthy level of submission is important in that masculine vs female energy. However, that only works if the masculine energy is in tune enough to like you said, be worthy to be respected, trusted, and followed. Not all submissiveness is healthy. There is...
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    Field Research: Men's Coaching

    Moderatos: Feel free to delete this post if not allowed or breaks any guidelines/rules. First off, I thank you in advance for taking part in this survey/poll. I am looking to expand and tune in the vision of Modern Man Advice. With that, I need to hear and learn from different perspectives and...
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    Having seconds thoughts after breaking up a 4year ltr

    I've posted this in the past but I'll do it again as it is important to always keep in mind. One word: Respect. Enforce it. NEVER allow disrespect from anyone, especially a woman you are in a committed relationship with. Ignore and move on with your life. Modern Man Advice
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    The "women don't really care about you" redpill notion is worrying me

    I like @Kotaix comment. It is a mistake to generalize just about anything in life, this includes women. From a primal and evolutionary perspective, women's need-to-take-care-of-"your man" mindset is real. It is how they assure the man can stick around to provide for their offspring and little...
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