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Did a warm approach yesterday (~6.5/10), got her number and set up a date next weekend. This girl just texted me out of the blue today. I'm going to do some more approaches Saturday.

Haha we can have a philosophic discussion if you want. When you interact with people, you either integrate in reality, mis-integrate, or disintegrate from reality. There's no way getting around that. You either benefit yourself, hurt yourself by accident, or hurt yourself on purpose. What...

@jhonny9546 He's not lying to do something covert or nasty. He's playing a game.

You have to teach yourself and depending on your background, may take a while. If you have a religious background, teaching yourself to be selfish will take longer. It's recognizing your needs are important.

Basic human interaction is not manipulation. Every person who attempts to gain something by dishonesty should always be held accountable. yep

Post screenshots of text messages with personal info blanked out, field reports, and stories. You could have a metric to measure this. Experience posts counted separately then non-experience posts. I would remove the "like" feature because I suspect that it produces bias. Field reports...

I think there should be a section where posters have a way of proving real world experience (ie showing receipts), respectfully of course. The rankings should reflect competency. Calling some of these dudes "Master Don Juan" or "Senior Don Juan" is misleading and unearned.

The mentally ill are cognitively incompetent.

I didn't communicate this very well so let me explain in another way. 'alpha' = selfish --> turns on the dopamine (excitement) 'beta' = makes her feel safe --> turns on the oxytocin (bonding)

Do you really have to ask? I think there's a correlation between water and wetness.

"maybe" "no just busy" Or don't answer that question at all and just text her when you want to with something unrelated.

Well you shouldn't have to be honest with people who are not honest with you. The solution though is to hold people accountable.

No it isn't. Just because you feel a certain way, that doesn't mean that is the way it is. Integrity is not an option if you want to prosper. Being selfish doesn't imply being dishonest or being a jerk. Being selfish means being effective. Protecting your friends and family is a selfish act.

I can't remember if it was you or not, but I've explained this several times. Beng dishonest by itself is not attractive. Dishonesty is not a perquisite to good social skills, but spotting dishonesty is a characteristic of someone with good social skills. Ask yourself this: Are you better...

If they are receptive to it, yes. The more you know what you stand for, the less this works on you.

haha Holding others accountable fixes the problem, both for yourself and the other person. If you spend enough time with a person, provided you have enough experience with people, you can basically figure the other person out. This is for the most part wrong. Lying is only useful when...

I'm glad you are asking. Being rational and selfish means being sane and effective. Being selfish doesn't mean stealing from anyone or being rude without cause to another person, for example. The best way to help someone is for you to be selfish. Your interactions ought to have a purpose...

I guarantee you she's emotionally unstable and emotionally immature. Not enough accountability in her life.

I wouldn't focus on jokes. Express cleverness when it comes to you, but that's it.

Move on and stop focusing on it. OP needs to feel like he deserves a better situation in his life and focus and pursue accordingly. There's tons of other potential friends and women out there that's better for him. Getting revenge in this situation is not going to accomplish anything.