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    Did anyone here had success with women that expect a lot in the beginning?

    Well first of all, are you weird? I've been with enough women to know that most guys are weird; multiple texts without reply, showing up uninvited, buying overly expensive gifts, thinking unresponsiveness means she's cheating, etc. First, you need to evaluate whether the problem is THEM, or...
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    Did anyone here had success with women that expect a lot in the beginning?

    Number 1 isn't interested in you, she's just interested in your resources, or sees you as a free meal - so she'll entertain you enough to get that out of you. You shouldn't even be going on dates with these women. It should be very obvious from the start whether there's mutual interest or...
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    What Are The Interest Indicators At Clubs & Bars? (Night Game)

    1. I prefer to go with friends, but yeah I've gone solo plenty of times. At the bar I used to frequent I was friends with the bouncers, bartenders, and managers, so even if my friends weren't there I was still in good company. Some of the best nights I've had out were by myself because I didn't...
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    What Are The Interest Indicators At Clubs & Bars? (Night Game)

    Really it just comes down to doing it enough and setting yourself up for when you find success. Go around 2-3 hours before closing so you run into more women who are single and open to a nightcap, the later they're at the bar, the better usually when it comes to this Don't get too drunk...
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    What Are The Interest Indicators At Clubs & Bars? (Night Game)

    Like I said above, there is a LOT of nuance to this that you can only pick up on by being in situations enough to recognize them. Sometimes a high IL girl WILL fall into your lap and you'll have to do next to nothing to move that interaction forward...I was once drunk off my ass at the local...
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    An almost successful field report

    Fair enough. Still, I'm surprised that she was so receptive, given the other pieces of context there. You don't have to rush into "scoring", but if she's agreed to come over to your place in the evening by herself I don't know why you'd spend more than an hour walking around in what I presume...
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    An almost successful field report

    First of all, I'm amazed that this interaction went as well as it did... Imagine being this girl; you're a tourist, by yourself, at night, approached by 2 men, who then ask to walk with her wherever she's going...holy hell, it's easy to see why she hesitated. Anyway, I want to address this...
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    What Are The Interest Indicators At Clubs & Bars? (Night Game)

    I think I have a different philosophy than what you describe here. It sounds like you're looking for IOIs BEFORE you approach - I approach, THEN look for IOIs. Sometimes the girls I want make it easy for me by doing the things you mentioned above; lots of eye contact, smiling, being close...
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    Plate who **** tested and didn't like the outcome

    I don't understand why you did a 180 here. What hoop is she having you jump through? She's basically saying "Hey, I want you to f*** me, but I don't want you to think I'm a slut". All you had to do was reassure her that you would still be interested in her afterward. Why was this the moment...
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    Plate who **** tested and didn't like the outcome

    Ok, so it sounds like she's very interested in you, that's good. As for the sh** test, might I suggest being playful first. If she's commanding you to "say please", that's one thing, but if she's sitting there smiling wanting to see what you'll do, that's another. You could've smiled, and...
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    Plate who **** tested and didn't like the outcome

    I don't get it... You passed her "sh** tests", took her home, went to business, and you rejected a spelled-out invitation to bang her - why? What do you want, if not this? She's got a kid, are you looking for a serious LTR with someone like that? I don't know what her "sh** tests" were, but...
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    What is the expected success rate at college bars?

    I made this post not long ago, if you have time I'd suggest giving it a read: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/how-to-really-get-girls.282763/ There are too many factors to list EXACTLY what you should do, so I'll just bullet point some suggestions: Go later rather than earlier. Girls...
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    I didn't think women could hurt me anymore

    Ok good, I appreciate that, it looks like we can have a conversation. Not necessarily more than you, just saying I get laid a lot compared to most people I know - and it's because I'm constantly open to meeting new women, and I'm never overly invested in one. The reason it may seem I don't...
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    I didn't think women could hurt me anymore

    I don't think I'm getting through to you so I'll leave you with this and let you get back to your echo chamber... There is a difference between "disrespect" and "not being a priority". You expect these girls to respect and value you, but you're NOT looking for a relationship with them, yet you...
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    I didn't think women could hurt me anymore

    Let me try to address your points with some examples and analogies. First, "Would a woman take 24-48 hours to reply to Drake"...I want to be rich. I am not yet rich. Should I expect others to treat me as if I am rich? My point is, that you are not Drake, so you should not be expecting to be...
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    I didn't think women could hurt me anymore

    I don't think you're equipped to have a casual relationship with a woman, I think you need commitment. You're upset with this woman for having a life outside of her time spent with you, even though your intentions with her are recreational - so why are you this emotional about her treating you...
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    article: Short Men: Why Women Aren't Attracted Enough to Date Them

    Dude...this article is 10 years old... If you're gonna mindlessly post random junk you come across, could it at least be current?
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    I didn't think women could hurt me anymore

    This you? https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/why-does-nutting-inside-a-girl-give-you-superpowers.282939/ Did you ever consider that MAYBE the way you saw her was the way she saw you? If that's the case, you shouldn't be bothered by this. Oh ok, so we're gonna play games and jump to...
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    Informing a woman of dealbreaker fetish

    Yeah, I'm done replying to this crap. Please don't let this garbage become another 10-page thread of nothingness.
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    Approaches

    Bro...nobody approaches...that's why everybody's looking for a cheat code so they don't have to do the obvious thing.
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