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Because I didn't want to be here as long as I have been. When I left my job and moved back in I had the impression that I would pick up something else and be out within a year. That didn't go according to plan, and the part-time job that I used to get by while working on other ventures is now...

Assuming English isn't your first language, I would strongly suggest a Chrome extension like Grammarly to have running in the background while you write. A lot of this was hard to read, especially in comparison to how much better you wrote in your "How to deal with men" post. I wouldn't use...

Are you in the US?

Little update: Took a preliminary look at the place where I used to live off-campus in college - it was a 4 BR that cost about $700/mo per person that covered everything except water/electric. The CHEAPEST option is $930/mo per person for an unfurnished 4BR with a total floor space of 1,548 sq...

While true, they VERY rarely will show any level of intimacy with a perfect stranger - especially in front of friends who may judge them, and while sober do not have the crutch of alcohol as an excuse.

I'm not big into social media either, though I do want to weigh in on one point. Yeah, attention is currency, but don't overthink it to the point where you're tracking down likes in an effort to undo them. It's weird if somebody notices that; because you'll get a notification that somebody...

@oliver109 this right here, do this. Lemme extrapolate on some of this: Bar dates - Nighttime, usually on weekends so the date doesn't have to be cut short by work in the morning. For that same reason, much easier to escalate and "stay overnight" if the date goes well. Not too expensive...

If you're a stranger, and they're sober, and it's in the middle of the day? I mean yeah dude.... You ever see somebody meet and start making out with some random they met in a grocery store, or a library, or walking in a park? That doesn't happen unless somebody's being paid or they're already...

Yeah nothing he said wasn't too unusual up until the "a bit trickier to get intimate" part...that doesn't really happen in a sober setting, around friends, with a total stranger... He should absolutely be doing what I've put in bold, especially if he's new at this, which he definitely is.

Ahh. Still an awful work situation and I'd probably look elsewhere if I were employed there.

Why are you approaching sober women, during the day, who are with their friends, trying to get intimate off a cold approach?

@Serenity @Dr.Suave @BackInTheGame78 I'm not even gonna read this novel, can somebody get this guy off my d*** before I need to start testing for AIDS?

Listen. F*** off. You are a painter with 2 kids in his early 30s telling me how to live my life as if you've figured yours out. You don't make amazing money. You're not sleeping with a bunch of women. I would also wager you're not in the greatest shape, so stop giving advice on ANY of these...

So this boss casually committed a federal crime; the Electronic Communications Privacy Act protects private communications across almost all electronic channels. The girlfriend laughed because it's her boyfriend. The other women in the office don't "want" him, but he's in a position of power...

Can you hop off my d***? You are in every single thread I've made or replied to, regardless of topic. Stop giving your advice, I don't want it, you don't have the solution to my problem, and you didn't "apologize" in DMs like you said openly. In all seriousness, shut the f*** up dude.

I did some math, 11,296 messages over the 6,766 days since you made your account equates to 1.67 messages per day. Every single day for more than 8 years you've messaged on here almost twice... I mean, have you considered posting advice or critiques rather than just copy pasting an article?

Reddit.

I found this site back in high school and I can't remember how...probably just searching "how to get good with girls" or something and found a page what wasn't tied to some PUA trying to sell me something.

He got scammed and lost a lot of money through a fake job listing too - apparently there are a lot of ghost listings, fake listings, and other BS to deal with right now. My logic is that he doesn't have a reason to live up there anymore, and the only real reason he hasn't moved is because he...

That's what I'm doing now, I've just been here longer than I intended to be. My brother has a good deal in NY, despite it being the most expensive place to live, but his unemployment ran out since he was let go so I wasn't sure if he would be open to looking at other options. That's not a bad...