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This is a good lesson for the future LL, this is why you put up your expectations for the LTR when you decide to commit to one so everyone knows what's up up front. Not having guy friends/exes in the picture/meeting guys 1on1 is a good one to keep in mind for the future. This was a bad bad sign...

Yeah the problem with "happy wife, happy life" is that she will take as much as she can get, which is more and more the more you raise your standards, so she will never be totally happy. It's the feminine imperative's message to create well behaved supplicating men that leads to the destruction...

This sums it up perfectly. Brilliant.

This was a mistake. You can't "win" these arguments, it doesn't matter who's right. She tried to rock your world or didn't feel loved and acted on her emotions at the time. You should have told her your view once, in matter of fact kind of way, smiled and spun her around and thrown her on the...

I don't have a beard, something between 10-20 days, but once i shaved cleanly and my gf at the time asked me. "who's this boy and what have you done to my man?" I let that speak for itself.

A professor once said: there are two types of males in this world. Men with beards, and then there are fe-males.

You're lying to yourself. You're not over her and detached after just 15 days, from here it looks like you're angry and hurt and not in a state where you can have emotionless sex with an ex. People here have been in your situation many times and speak out of experience. You've gotten great...

Read this today, an update if you're interested: "It isn’t just unsuspecting insects that can fall under the spell of a behavior-changing parasite. Mice that are infected with Toxoplasma gondii are often said to lose their fear of cats. If they’re less scared of cats, they’re more likely to get...

Women would rather share a high value Man than be saddled with a faithful loser - POOK

I'm with LARaider85 on this one. Relationships ending are much harder on men than on women as dumpees, if 7 months would call for professional help, almost every dude out there would need professional help. Yks202x: You're not "supposed to" do anything, that tells me you're putting pressure on...

Of course you can listen to what she has to say, you're in a relationship after all which calls for some kind of teamplay and incorporating eachother in big decisions, but bear in mind that it will be advice that suits her the best, or atleast what she thinks is right. Which means it's nothing...

You don't believe in that. She works in the entertainment business, she's a model and "very friendly, outgoing and positive" and hangs around alot of dudes. Sorry to say this, she's having s3x, just not with you. Which makes you a friend.

David Deida - The way of the superior man is a must read for every man in my eyes.

It sounds like you're trying to force something that isn't there right now. You've to give yourself the time it takes and not pressure yourself. I guess everyone's different but for me, meeting new women that soon after, i just can't be myself and have all my thoughts on the ex. Time will heal...

Were these single mommies russian speaking? Curious to your experiences with them since you seem to be from a russian speaking country yourself.

I agree, it depends. In general it's a great sonar based on personal experiences of life and it would be making you a disservice not to listen to what it says. When it comes to people (and women) i think it's very accurate, and this is coming from a very logical minded person mind you. Because i...

She's texting another dude during your date is all i need to know. If it's a quick text to a friend because you have been hanging out all day (??) that's alright. Anything else is just disrespect and low interest. Nip it in the bud immediately by saying "oh, am i boring you?" She will then say...

A perfect example of a celebrity who is a total beta with women is the rapper Drake. Rappers in general are good with women, they tend to NOT put women on pedestals as much as other celebrities and usually have many women in their rotations, abundance mindset and all, but this guy is just...

To be fair i think alot of these BPDs in general are not really diagnosed as BPD, it's just easy to throw them into that category when you write a post about a "crazy" woman on a forum like this. The real number of BPDs are much lower i'm sure. With all respect to OP.

The rules of intergender dynamics doesn't change just because we're talking about celebrities. A Johnny Depp might be a hero for you because of his persona in the movies, but he might be a total beta when it comes to women. I know nothing about his romantic life except he was left by Vanessa...