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...or parents as a legal adult. My notch count would be lower if I spent a significant amount of time living with my parental figures after my college graduation at age 22. During ages 18-24, young adults find themselves shuttling between living away from parents and living with parents. If...

Childless women under 40 tend to not want to long term date a man with a vasectomy. Childless women like to keep their options for future child bearing, even if they are on birth control at that moment. A man with a vasectomy might see his longer term options improve with single moms who don't...

...times per year. Just not the traditional way. On that note, my pregnancy phobia has had an impact on getting laid the traditional way. In college, there were 2 separate instances when I opted out of sex after a first date, despite the fact we were both naked in bed. Then in my first year...

...a birth control shot) Condoms put the decision in the hands of the man, I know. I've had condoms break/slip off, however. I had an older college classmate (he was 43 or 44) who mentioned to me once that he got a vasectomy. One time later on, in a setting where others were present, I asked...

I think it's both a social and personal thing nowadays. There is an overall exhaustion from men when it comes of dating or even hunting.

...senior year of high school. As impressive as it would've been, I did not tack on 93 more notches to my body count in the 3 following years at college - most of this happened post-grad. And no, they're not middle-aged coke addicts, but hey, like I said at the beginning; believe what you want...

How do you sustain such motivation? I would be fried!

...You had mentioned in a post of mine a couple years ago (tempus fugit) that you couldn’t understand how a 38 year old single dad was pulling college students at the bar, sober when you were having issues. I would tread super carefully if I was someone on this forum looking for advice. OP...

...in non-bar venues since 2012-2013. Prior to then, I spent my late teens and most of my 20s as a nightlife venue approacher (off campus college parties and then bars once I turned 21). Most 30+ single men deal with this differently than I have. The typical 30+ single man who loses his bar...

Of course, all this overlooks a more salient fact which rarely gets much discussion... It's no one else's responsibility except our own to cultivate a thirst for developing one's own mind(That means consuming sublime literature), or strengthen one's own social acuity, by going out into the...

Little update: Took a preliminary look at the place where I used to live off-campus in college - it was a 4 BR that cost about $700/mo per person that covered everything except water/electric. The CHEAPEST option is $930/mo per person for an unfurnished 4BR with a total floor space of 1,548 sq...

Speak of Beezelebub https://think.kera.org/2024/11/06/some-top-college-students-cant-get-through-a-novel/

What did you drink when out at bars that’s not alcohol?

I haven’t drank in about 45 days and I feel great. Also, you can still go to bars. Prior to 2023, I wasn’t drinking for a long time. Anything you saw me write regarding game in bars was dead sober. Pulled college students, no issue.

I certainly utilized porn and masturbation in college. But neither of those were as good as the real thing (which is why I went to the desperate measures I did to get/try to get laid) The fact my sex drive was at its peak back then certainly didn't help. Even though a lot of men would probably...

...& masturbation. That's not healthy. The porn & masturbation plan has become easier since the growth of high speed internet. Specific to college, all the dorms at my university had high speed internet by the time I arrived on campus in 2001. Even in 2001-2002 (my freshman year), it was easy...

Maybe I should elaborate. When I was in college, I was an absolute dog when it came to sex. Extremely desperate. Because I had no backup plan. Once I developed my backup plan, I'm no longer the pathetic animal I was 12 years ago (I know I'm not supposed to discuss my backup plan on here. So I...

...situation in this post but I think this is a good start on commentary. There's something to be said for people who meet in high school and college (before ages 22-23 -- typical college graduation ages). They get together young and have the potential to grow well together. It can be a near...

...couple if they were from a younger generation. While my dad's looks have obviously faded, he was somewhat of a Chad in his younger days (college athlete). That alone would have made him one of the rare guys to get a lot of attention on swipe apps. As for my mom (and you're, to the best of my...

Applying for a job or a college is not an accomplishment, that's why I said you wouldn't know what true rejection feels like.