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Great worded post Still on reflection of being in London and surrounded by middle/upper classes I still think increasing options is tough for the vast majority of men if they live in a competitive city . Looking at the view of London a city which is full of roughly 200,000 millionaires being a...

I think you're spot on but there is a flipside to what you're saying. Those things won't matter if you're dealing with a down-to-earth chick who really digs you. If you're trying to date a bougie chick, higher educated chick, or IG model type then yeah those things will matter a lot more. The...

...own age. At 35+, a man will need an above average apartment at a minimum to get laid in a bigger city if he tends to deal with bougie, college educated women. Being some sort of homeowner also tends to help, especially if the home is a nicer home. Owning a mediocre to subpar home probably...

We're similar in height. Interestingly, I never recall my height being the reason broads have treated me poorly. Possibly because of all the other baggage I have working against me.

...annual holidays, etc. Yes, modern women in Western nations are very difficult. I've been dating in some of the biggest USA metros since my college graduation nearly 20 years. It has been an massive effort. I have had headaches and trauma as a result of big city dating while being a working...

...Don't waste your time on women and instead invest your energy into other pursuits that will bring some sort of benefit. I see that you are in college, which means you are young and in a place where you can set a frame work for a very successful future. Get yourself into the gym and eating a...

...2000s. Many people promoted a 3 day no contact that I first heard about in the late 1990s/early 2000s when I was in high school and college and first looking to date. Women do have more abundance now as compared to the early to mid 2000s. I don't use any hard and fast rules on contact. In...

...old ladies for practice I was shy in school and didn’t grow up with sisters or even many women friends. That’s why it probably took me until college to really get alot of quality interactions with women. Even then it took joining forums like this, listening to alot of seminars, reading alot...

...like you're a type of dude who would benefit more by meeting and talking to women in some other social envinronments outside of night clubs. Heck, you're in college, there must be many types of socializing out there, where you can actually talk to women and where they can hear what you're saying.

What gets said in your typical conversation?

It gets tricky when you transition from just drunken hookups to actually conversing. That's what brought me here years ago. It may be the topics you discuss. Anything routine like school, jobs, where are you from, how many siblings, etc. will dry a woman's vag like a summer day in Phoenix...

Older men = more resources. So it makes sense that up untill recently women of all ages went for older men. But, nowadays it's a different ballgame. An older woman with enough resources to "do her thing " in life only needs a man for pleasure. So you can be a broke dead beat, as long as you...

...woman is a man under his mid-20s because he hasn't aged enough to have a lot of women younger than him. I remember being 22 and first out of college. I started going to bars in a district that was known to be more working age. While that bar area wasn't super old, there were a lot of 24-27...

You care too much about the outcome and the women are sensing it Women are highly socially adept they notice very subtle stuff most men aren't even aware of , the second she gets a sense your trying too hard or want something from her she isn't yet ready to give she's going to give you a hard...

...risks, let’s just say someone I know lives with his parents in his late 20s. He had a girlfriend for seven years or so, and they met in college. While she moved into her own apartment, got her own car, and started working for a big firm downtown of my city, he still lives at home, often...

...school. Focus on seducing some freshman females then. Based on the age listed in your profile, I am thinking that you are a senior in college. You are well positioned to bang some freshman females. Run standard daygame on them while walking on campus or hit on them in on campus clubs. You...

...in those years was the gain in popularity of smartphones and earbuds. In roughly my sophomore (2002-2003) or junior (2003-2004) years of college, the majority of females at my college gym did not use headphones/earbuds with an iPod (introduced 2001) or other MP3 playing device. In the...

The really hot ones can be exhausting. I found this out in high school/college… the best girlfriend/wife types were the female athletes ( in my opinion)… I was hooking up with a girl that was probably a 9… back then she was obsessed with MySpace and getting pictures up… it took her hours to...

That's what sosuave is for. You can take yourself from the 50th percentile and put yourself in the 80th. In terms of success Talking to women is like learning sales. You get better as you get more experience and gain confidence in yourself. But you have to put in the work. Nobody is gonna...

...entered the all male school + the height issue. That's a recipe for disaster. Going from an all male school into a STEM major in a co-ed college isn't going to help. Few girls in classes. You would have had to be very involved in campus clubs where females were present, be in a good...