You might be right, or might not be. I just don't think that is the main issue here. The main thing is your mental peace is at stake, thread carefully. Peace of mind is one of my standards when it comes to women and especially if it's a woman I want to commit to. Can she offer me peace of mind...
At the end of the day, we can't get mad at her. Or any "dating coach" out there. They are simply recycling material known to many of us. She created a business model, worked out, and made a profit. In my books, good for her.
What we should be worried, and to some extent pissed, about are these...
You might be a tweak or two away from a healthy committed long-term relationship.
DO NOT commit unless there is mutual trust and respect. And then you continue building on that.
Sending each other videos to prove you are telling the truth is not only unhealthy but you will not build trust...
What's with this obsession to understand women?
Who knows, man. We can all theorize, but it comes down to whether it is relevant?
Focus on what you can control, and that is the frame. You lost it, period. She has you running the hamster wheel.
GET OFF OF IT.
Ask it if people should get the Covid-19 vaccine and report back if it still thinks that " it is important to remember that everyone has the right to make their own choices about their bodies..."
But why flirt with him if there is no tangible end goal? Like @Dr.Suave so eloquently said: Either put out or leave him alone. As of right now, in his eyes and every man's eye here, you are a tease seeking validation.
PS: Forget about genuine platonic friendships between men and women. 99% of...
"It's not you, It's me."
But in all seriousness, one thing that most men lack to acknowledge or seem oblivious to is the fact when she decides to break it off it is just a formality. She made the decision way before that but most men fail to see those signals.
I'll give you the same advice I give men here: Value yourself a little.
1) He lives far away - Are you that desperate?
2) Worse of all, he is in a committed relationship. Do you want to be his mistress?
I actually discovered, and strongly prefer, to have either a phone call or video call prior to the first date. This alone has brought flakiness down to zero.
It's a form of frame, vetting, and building rapport which is much needed these days.
Jack Donovan calls it the Bonobo culture. It's a form of self-entertainment. We can now masturbate with another person's body. Sex is no longer a social bonding interaction with the underlying goal of community expansion and our own species' evolution.
It's why in some cases abortion is a...
Totally. Don't get me wrong. If I'm texting a girl when I'm free and we engage in a cool exchange then I respond right away and she does as well. So yes, you are mirroring each other's "interest".
I meant generally speaking.
Huh? I type with my fingers. I don't know if you have any deformities but I type with my fingers.
And before I move on from arguing with you, cause I dislike wasting my time, Football involves throw-ins and keepers which involve the hands. The head is also used. My point is that the feet are...
There is no exact formula. Ideally, you are busy with your life and purpose so you respond whenever you get the chance. That roughly translates to a few hours later. Even a day later.
The opposite of that is having no life or purpose and replying right away every time. And she will run for the...
As you know I am not a fan of Andrew Tate, but this is one of the things I completely agree with him, you must protect your women, and have them be respected at all costs. No man will disrespect my woman, period.
Put simply: It's one of the few ways most men, that are not winning in life, feel like winning in life. It's the closest they'll get to that feeling of accomplishing something. So when "your" team wins, you "win".
PS: Let me start by saying I'm a US citizen and grew up in the US (NYC to be more...
I don't have a drinking problem but I can tell you that reaching out to seek perspective is very admirable and I respect that.
From what I know about alcoholism is that it has one of the, if not the most, bad withdrawals of any drug because of how dependent your body becomes on it. I think that...
Without getting into political details, they are two completely different situations, it simply is a matter of how the media packages those stories and how the people consume those stories based on social comformity.
Simply put, anything that seems like the new "thing" to support, or "trendy"...
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