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  1. Modern Man Advice

    Is cheating "OK" considering most relationships end anyways?

    You will always feel this need. It's how your brain is wired. However, this is where most men fail and some men elevate themselves. Having self-control and mastering mind over body should be every man's goal.
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    Would you date an only fans model escort or exotic dancer?

    Neither, nor do I fancy dating or even messing with either. I prefer real challenges.
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    A lot of weak men!

    The biggest problem with men nowadays is not being challenged. In a feminized society, males are both ridiculed and distracted.
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    Is this a friendzone text or just some casual womenese “she says what thinks is right”

    Two options (among others): 1) If my interest is low, I reply with "K" and let her take the initiative for the next date (Stop doing group hangouts and escalate when appropriate). 2) If my interest is high, I agree, amplify, and minimize my attention/availability to the girl (still avoid group...
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    Hanging out with my gf and her girl friends: bad idea?

    She is "in love" with his success. He is "in love" with her youth. That's how I read it.
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    Hanging out with my gf and her girl friends: bad idea?

    Too many questions. You are overthinking this. Be you. Enjoy yourself. PS: If you are already committed and invested in this girl, then it makes sense for you to start getting to know her social circle. Just don't over do it. Allow her to have that space, and for you to have your space.
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    Woke Plates w/Strong Frames

    No amount of sex, even if great is worth your mental peace and masculine energy. With that said, I only engage in those topics unless I fully trust the girl and have a clear understanding that she is emotionally and intellectually mature. Meaning, can she hold such a conversation in an open...
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    Trust your gut without solid proof?

    Hear hear I was also in the same situation, I'm 99% sure my ex-wife cheated on me. No proof but all the subtle signs were there, my gut instinct was there, and her behavior and actions spoke louder than any word she could have said. However, does it really matter after you break up and move...
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    Busting your load in a girl on the first date

    In my experience, most women crave it. Remember, semen is a big part of your masculinity. There is a masculine mystique and energy in your semen, women are wired both spiritually and physically to crave that energy from you. My two cents.
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    When love becomes complicated, what to do?

    You're not living up to your username. Use some of it, have some self-respect and dignity, and as everyone has said here: walk away. Now if you are set on "fixing" this and getting her back, then none of us can truly help you. Whoever says they can, is wasting your time. Straight up. PS...
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    Is game just about age and maturity?

    The latter more than the former but generally speaking yes. You can be >35 and still be an idiot and socially inept. And you can be <35 and have enough life experiences under your belt to give you some solid maturity. What it comes down to, maturity comes from experience (both negative and...
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    Your opinions

    My opinion: Your mental health comes first. She is clearly detrimental to it. Move on.
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    The Internet is forever

    Why do you fellas feel the need to protect/shield your opinions? Be proud of your thoughts, ideas, beliefs, and opinions. In fact, I want the world to know what I stand for. On the flip side, I know I am not perfect and constantly evolving. If I say something that doesn't age well, then that...
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    Why is it that women who have nothing to offer are the most troublesome?

    This is not new. Just like there are men that have a lot to offer and are high value, there are males that are useless. Three major things that I've talked about multiple times here: Set and withhold high standards for the women in your life Vet women out carefully and patiently during the...
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    Are These Sh*t Tests?

    Whether its a test or not is irrelevant, what she is doing is you a favor. Never get into these "patterns" or routines. It's too predictable and eventually becomes dull, tasteless, and comfortable. All things you don't want to settle on with someone. It might work for a few months, maybe a year...
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    Is ANY dating coach actually effective?

    Nothing changes if you don't change how you think on a deep level that touches all parts of your life not just dating. You can game all you want, but at the end of the day, you will be the same insecure/unfulfilled person if you don't work on your mindset. So when I hear "dating coach" I hear...
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    Girl mad at me

    Talk/Text over the phone, same difference. You "talked" every day for 1-2 hours prior to even meeting in person. Do you get it now or not quite? The same applies, you lack social skills. PS: Lose the "lol", leave that to teenage girls.
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    Women are your true companions. Men aren’t your friends.

    Let's see how well this post ages... Just wait for it... PS: I do agree, however, there are a lot of "black pill" comments and statements in the manosphere community in general. Becoming jaded towards women will only add to the problem.
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    Advice on female (or male) tenant in my home

    This goes back to "you don't eat where you s**t". Your home is your sanctuary. A place of rest and mental peace. A space away from the constructs of life. Bringing someone that you can potentially feel physical/mental attraction will hinder that. Unless you have a high sense of self-control and...
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    "Being persistent" vs "Pursuing" debate concluded

    I totally agree with you. However, I use these two terms "Chasing vs Pursing". I intentionally pursue women that meet my standards and I find intriguing AND that show (not just say) interest in me as well. I do not chase women. You chase whenever you are trying to "convince" someone into...
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