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And that's why you don't overdo texting before meeting first. How many times does this need to be said? Only text to set up dates. Leave your game and escalation to in-person. What you said was not only random but inappropriate to say (worse text) to someone you haven't built rapport with...

It would be best if you stepped into a LTR with mental peace but she for sure needs to allow you to have that and contribute to it. In theory, a woman should positively challenge you, support you, give you genuine solid sex, and work on herself as much as you work on yourself. As far as...

You might be confusing holding frame when it comes to intergender dynamics vs simply being respectful towards others' beliefs.

Never. No retreat. No surrender. That is man's law.

Welcome, it's great seeing others also wanting to focus on men's wellness and mental health. I can give you my own experience with Modern Man Advice. The "Why" is everything. Never focus your business on what you do, but on why you do it. Have a vision. Trust is everything. I spend a lot of...

You just set your standards. What are you willing to tolerate vs not? Especially for LTR. For me, it's more than 5 guys in her past. Past that, I would consider not appealing. I'd bang them (use protection) but would not take them seriously. And I would let them know and set expectations of...

You mean a mother teaching her daughter how to f**k a man while she herself joins in the action is not realistic? Man, I must be getting the wrong kind of sex and missing out. Hmmm Also, NoFap has never been labeled a "cure". It is a practice. Do more research on the topic.

As much as I advocate for male rights, this has nothing to do with it. He got himself in that position, that is his fault and he should own up to it instead of b***ing about it. Live and learn boys: As @SW15 said and I've said multiple times here, being friends with a woman you are physically...

Two words: Jason Staham Bald (when the head is shaved) is nowadays considered masculine. This is one of those things like age or height. The issue is not that you are bald, is that you let it get to you and that will transpire. But as others have mentioned, there are options/routes you can...

Yep, that's a woman all right. I don't know about bipolar, that's a stretch. But like @Dr.Suave said, keep it cool man, don't let her emotions get the best of you.

The Way Of Men by Jack Donovan All volumes of Rollo Tomassi books (Preventive Medicine is not really a must) The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida Of Boys And Men by Richard Reeves Start With Why by Simon Sinek Mindset by Carol Dweck More Than Enough by Dave Ramsey The Code of the...

Thar is a lot of years of conditioning and brain wiring. You are not ready, nor should you, commit to a relationship. What other books have you read? I can suggest a few to start. But ultimately, you need to spend time alone. You need to build yourself from the ground up. You need to suffer and...

Haha yeah, cake is bomb. It's a reference to a US show called That 70's Show where in one episode Donna tells her bf Eric she loves him and obvi freaks him out and he replies "I love cake".

Just say "I miss cake".

Speak your mind, but remain humble. That's all.

Yeah, def cutout porn. That will hinder the neuroplasticity in your brain and is the reason why sex never feels satisfactory. But what it does sounds like is just a high sex drive, not addiction. If you were lowering your standards, seeking validation or social status, "selling" yourself for it...

There are two parts to this: 1) What is addiction? Another member briefly mentioned this but what most men would consider sex addiction is just a normal sex drive for a man. Men naturally have high sex drives and given the opportunity, we will have sex, even if the woman barely or doesn't even...

You sound like Camus or Sartre. I've been there so I can speak from experience, and ironically reading Camus and Sartre gave me a lot of comfort. Just like listening to Radiohead makes me happy, an oxymoron of some sort. But you did make a "mistake" which I wouldn't necessarily call it that...

Thanks, man. I appreciate your input. But there is a difference between embracing pain and holding on to pain. Everything I coach, advise and have an opinion on is based on experience. I do not coach on anything I haven't experienced myself. I have lost family tragically (not natural death)...

Without pain, fear, or sadness, how would you know or genuinely experience the opposite emotions? Don't shy away from it. Don't ignore it. Embrace it. Without suffering you wouldn't truly have a human experience. You need it. Just don't assume you'll live with the pain forever, it's...