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  1. Black Widow Void

    Trans Influencer has a meltdown...

    Link appears to be in Spanish
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    Why are you not in a relationship?

    Although I'm not currently single, I've been many times in life and have received this question a lot. In fact, so much...that my response is memorized. Why are you not in a relationship: "I'd rather be single, keep my options open and date around... than be in a relationship for the sake of...
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    Be weary of "Traditional" women and people in general

    This has been going on way before recent politics (incidentally, a subject that is not allowed on this forum - please be mindful) . Women have also infiltrated churches with the very same motive and known to do the bait and switch thing.
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    Breastfeeding

    Not breastfed here, but I do like 'em a lot. Seeing as though I prefer women around my age, I'd rather have a petite gal with A or B cups (they still appear perky) than an overweight gal with fat ones or an older gal with larger saggy ones. But then again, those can come in handy if you're into...
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    Ugh Im 43, shes a 21 year old party girl. We're so incompatible but I want to win this.

    Nah, you don't suffer from autism. You suffer from an above average IQ (welcome to the club). When I was your age and it comes to women, I only found two ways to rid oneself of being over analytical. Either drink in social situations (which means that you'll get hotter women, but they usually...
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    AI chat bots

    I’m from the south. Although I’m a Southerner, I wouldn’t consider myself the stereotype. However, the stereotype is quite prevalent and does exist for a reason. Therefore the Internet actually allows me to reach people who have higher intellect, curiosities about things, and different...
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    V-day?

    100% agree and I always feel like a sell-out when I participate. Not only this... but here's the irony. Valentines day is a symbol of the heart... but we aren't acting from the heart. We're acting upon societal pressure. I've yet to meet a woman that gets it, and so to avoid awkwardness, I...
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    Girl Says She's Not Into FWBs/Casual On First Meet

    Although we don't agree, there's indeed mutual respect here. You spoke your truth and I spoke mine. That's all that we should expect from fellow men. In a world of forum anonymity, it's rare for members to disagree and still shake hands.
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    Do you believe when she tells you her ex came knocking?

    Question: How many times have you heard a man say "I've got a gut feeling?" Question: How many times have you heard a woman say "my conscious was bothering me?" Answer: It's better to trust your gut... than to trust some notion that a woman acted weirdly due to her guilty conscience.
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    V-day?

    If she's cool with not being frivolous, it sounds like you have a good catch. I'm just glad that my gal doesn't know about this forum (you'll make some of us look cheap and unoriginal). I'll send flowers to her work, take her to a nice restaurant and to a movie of her choice (she knows that I...
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    Which Articles or Threads you suggest from website?

    From what I can tell, you have a lot more knowledge about computers, internet security and things like this. Obviously, I don't. Thanks for fixing this. I'm going to suggest a book that is going to sound really and I mean really outdated. I read this book about forty years ago and it sounded...
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    I'm coming out of the closet.

    Nah... I don't think that it's an issue of forum members being gay. But, if there's this need to flex and prove oneself to a bunch of internet strangers (among this forum)...then... can you really see them as being successful with women in real life? I can't.
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    Which Articles or Threads you suggest from website?

    I wouldn't delve too deeply into a lot of material (you'll end up like some forum members here). What I mean is... don't get 'drunk' on information . Among this forum, we have a lot of members that aren't likely as successful with women as they claim. Instead, they give themselves away by...
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    I'm coming out of the closet.

    Hey... if that's your thing then it's all good. Unlike others here, you'll get no push-back from me. Everybody has a preferred type. I suppose that I'm a bit of an anomaly too. I actually prefer women around my own age. These type of women (over 40 or over weight) are not as much of a hot...
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    Girl Says She's Not Into FWBs/Casual On First Meet

    Not contradictory in the least. “Playing the field” (as I know it to be) is keeping your options open and capitalizing on noncommittal opportunities. There’s plenty of women out there that will consent to noncommittal ‘fun.’ There are some willing women that might prefer otherwise, but will...
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    female attachment and commitment - how do you switch this on???

    I think that there are more forum members wanting an LTR than something casual, but it's not considered 'cool' to openly admit it. Here's my take on your situation: I'm betting that you've read a lot of or watched a lot of videos about "how to meet women." While some of this can be...
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    Girl Says She's Not Into FWBs/Casual On First Meet

    I don't disagree with your analogy and have also found this to be true as well. However, I also think that we veterans have a responsibility to forum members and lurkers. ---- Sometimes when a girl says "no" she really means no. If we're making out with a gal, it's no crime to slowly move our...
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    Girl Says She's Not Into FWBs/Casual On First Meet

    This message is to the lurkers and the less-experienced viewing this forum: I agree that women (or at least, most) can be ruthless, conniving and vain etc... but I disagree on the action of using a woman. It's not right and it's not an action by men of honor and integrity. I won't lie. I've...
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    Girl Says She's Not Into FWBs/Casual On First Meet

    This is peculiar. In all my dating experience, I've never heard a woman say that she's" not into friend with benefits or casual hook-ups on first encounter." If what you are saying is... a woman saying that she "will not sleep with you on the first date" I've heard it plenty of times. Sometimes...
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    A m*** in training from high school has recently contacted me!

    Having hooked up with a few married women in my younger days, I'd be that last to criticize. However with age, it's not something I admit with any pride. Apparently, it's not cool to openly admit when we hit a dry spell, but it happens to everyone (though few on this forum will openly admit...
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