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  1. bcude

    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    I imagine he dumped you from your posting. You're doing good, look at all the healing you've been doing. Every day is a step closer to being totally free in your mind, cherish that. It's a common mistake to assume that men and women work the same but we don't need relationships the same way as...
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    Prince Harry

    Yes, Harry gave her the rope and now she's running away with it to see how far she can run with it before she runs out of rope, however she can't make it too obvious that she runs away with the rope all at once. She, like all experienced women in that age have perfected the way to manipulate in...
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    Was it worth shutting down the economy?

    It wouldn't work because you're simplifying this using deaths as the only measurement. Hospitals are filled with people of every age in need of ICU being severely ill, just because older people have worse odds of surviving doesn't mean younger people won't get effected, so the outcome would...
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    First Date Can’t Tell If She’s Into Me

    I never set up the next date during a date either but i hint of a future and put future projections in her head of fun things we could be doing. This can help sometimes if she's afraid that you're only after a ONS, but i genuinely mean what i say and enjoy her company if i say so. Something...
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    Was it worth shutting down the economy?

    Well we kind of did shut down our economy and whether that was correct is a huge topic here aswell, but not to the same extent as the rest of the world. Schools, borders, restaurants, gyms are all still open, people are allowed to do whatever they want but most choose to be careful... during the...
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    Single mom issue

    Another example of a woman who wants to have the cookie and eat it at the same time. My advice break off all contact and move on from her. Even if the sex is easy and good you're emotionally involved and this will only get worse and lead to suffering for you. What's worse, you might even make...
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    what is a good count for sexual partners a woman has?

    Her skills with BJ is a solid indicator actually. Now that could also come from alot of practice within one or many relationships, but that's where you listen and observe, she will drop hints of her former life with time and then you can add the pieces together. OP, as low as possible, under 5...
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    "Not looking for a hookup"

    Driving a prius to fvck women. I can't stop thinking about Brian from the family guy when i read about you lol
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    Should you ever compliment a girl on her looks?

    Everything depends on what kind of man you're and what kind of vibe you're sending out. But is it generally advantageous? No. If you're unsure don't compliment on her looks until you've had sex with her to keep it simple. Compliments should be given sincerely and preferably tailored to something...
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    Dating divorced mom is a NO NO!!!

    Thank you for sharing, much respect that you stuck your head out and shared your mistakes and what you've learned from it. I agree with everything except the quoted part. That's too black and white, I don't believe the kid will automatically resent you just because you're not blood. It depends...
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    Covid – 19 concerns, and her ex is back in the picture. Advice please

    There's no thing such as too much fvcking if you don't have other goals of course, like holding hands or knitting. You're not doing the girl a favour by fvcking her.... and it's not the reason why girls lose interest after a year like this other poster is trying to say. You go after what you...
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    Covid – 19 concerns, and her ex is back in the picture. Advice please

    Unnecessary comment at the end, you sounded butthurt over it instead of indifferent. What do you want from her? She's a single mom so i imagine you're not looking for anything serious? He left her, so he walked away with all the "power" in their relationship. Feelings between them are...
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    Who is thinking of breaking no-contract with their exes?

    You haven't really moved on or used no contact for the right reasons if you're want to break it now because an opportunity arises. Who cares how she is doing now? The relationship is over. It's like using christmas or birthdays to have a reason to break NC. Don't do it. Will only set you back...
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    Women and anxiety

    That sounds wise indeed. Maybe the wisdom isn't sinking in everytime but atleast you will strengthen the connection with that particulary woman and that can never be a bad thing really.
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    At what point do YOU start calling HER?

    4th thread and counting about a woman you've met exactly once who's long distance. Coming off this needy and insecure in front of us makes me wonder how all the women around must feel. You're looking at details when you should be looking at the big picture. You can only fake it for so long.
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    Dating during COVID-19 - we met!

    She just wanted you to come straight over and have a little fun, not for you to spill your heart out. Maybe that's why her interest level changed, maybe not. But i can tell you it's more effective to be the guy that comes over to fvck and then leaves her guessing. The guy she can't figure out...
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    LTR advice - kind request for your opinion

    Yeah, unfortunately that's how it usually works. The more commitment you give to a woman, the more power you give up since your ability to walk away diminishes with every step and she knows it -> relationship, cohabitation, marriage, children. When women find themselves in comfortable situations...
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    Covid-19, Dating, and Society

    Covid19 is actually fighting feminism Suddenly we've women and old plates coming out of the woodwork hitting up guys left and right. Because suddenly we've a real actual problem in the world so the women go looking for safety. So much for the strong and independent woman. Men are usually...
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    LTR advice - kind request for your opinion

    Couldn't agree more. Makes me wonder, what kind of value did you see in her when sex was pretty much off the table and she rarely cooked. A woman who's attracted and aroused by you will make everything for you, even if she's not the "type", she will do it just because she knows it would make you...
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    Covid-19, Dating, and Society

    This is a long, but very detailed read for all you freaks in the US: Covid19 in the US
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