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They bond through sex since it's very emotional. They backwards rationalize. "I slept with this guy, which must mean i like him alot, i better step up not to lose him" Since women are gatekeepers to sex, the guys they do let into the golden pvssy they're qualified to be potential boyfriends so...

Why would anyone on this forum accept her invitation to become an orbiter just to boost her sense of worth? Men, don't enable this kind of BS behavior. That's why we have these entitled fatties thinking they're Madonna in her prime. Remember, your most valuable currency is your attention. She...

We had a long and great thread about this exact topic half a year ago. All women (and men) will look at attractive people, that's just fact and perfectly normal. The question is if she's doing it very overt in your face, or not. If she does then it's disrespect and what works the best is to...

With all due respect but you have a child together, that changes everything. I can count so many separated parents that would never even talk to each other if it weren't for that fact, but they had to be cordial because of the child and from there some kind of tolerance and relationship grew.

@vanballmoos, if a man keeps in contact with a woman (non-professionally) and initiates like this guy is doing when he should be dismissing her and move on, he wants to get inside her pants 99.99% of the time. It's clear that this guy OP is seeing thinks about his ex alot and will jump at the...

You have 2 scenarios. 1. "Alpha" guy keeping frame all the way with the plate, minding his own business and leaving her, since he's plate was full and he choose other women over her. 2. Most guys. Had some fun, it fizzled out, maybe he got feelings and started to lose frame and acted needy. In...

Becky, You're a rebound to this guy and his mind is still occupied with his ex having doubts about his decision to breakup, are you okay with that? He has to sort those feelings out if you want something serious with him (which i assume) and you'll have to distance yourself from him while he...

You know alot of the time it can also be the case that she just found someone closer to her and dropped you for him. Especially if she changed more or less over night, the point is that it doesn't have to be about something you did wrong. Then again, they can fall out of love over night too so...

People say LDR never work out in the end, because of a reason. They usually don't and there's not much you can do about it because prolonged physical distance is an attraction killer. Usually what happens after a couple of months when the immediate infatuation wears off, is that one of the...

In theory you need to get far away from this woman and break ALL contact, which is not possible because of your child, so keep it professional but atleast shift your focus where it should be 100% right now - getting your own place. It's time to do whatever it takes to achieve that goal. This...

This. Women are taught not to give it up too easily and to play hard to get from young age, because they're told they're the prize. As soon as it seems too good to be true, it usually is. A girl telling you after 2 days she loves you? She's most probably seriously damaged.

This is all indicative of her feeling attraction towards you, however since you guys were classmates and knew each other for such a long time already where no action was present, i'd say you fell into the comfortable friendzone a long time ago. That's a product of spending alot of time together...

I think stormrider nailed this thread with this quote. It happens in all areas and is a common faulty mindset of women. And she's 18 years old, i wouldn't expect much maturity at that age.

Honesty is always the best way, it will hurt no matter how you end it so you can't really deliver in a kind way where she will hurt less, but you can deliver it in ways that can make it worse, like giving her hope. Avoid that at any cost. Just tell her in chick language that you feel you're at...

Well women tend not to take any responsibility, accountability and usually find some way to blame the guy when they leave. Instead of introspecting and work on themselves for future, better relationships so the bad patterns continue. At the same time guys (dumpeés) tend to blame themselves and...

I can't recall where right now but i recently heard an interview with a female UFC fighter who was in a good LTR with this other male UFC fighter. If you're in the UFC you're at the top of your game and one of the best fighters in the world. So they fought at the same gala and he had his match...

I agree that we shouldn't really care what she thinks of us, but respect ultimately comes back to you. If she doesn't respect you that means that you have shown that you don't respect yourself and that my friend is the problem and is not a happy existence walking around with the feeling of being...

You never bring up that you're looking for something serious with women first and you never say that you love them first, keep that in mind. Women want to feel like they have to overcome obstacles to win a man’s heart. They crave the challenge of capturing the interest of a man who has other...

You worry about having fun dates and having sex with her and let her worry about trapping you down in a relationship and having "serious" talks. Don't take away women's pleasure of chasing.

Seems like you didn't read the post. It's NC until she reaches out, which might be indefinately if she doesn't, which is highly unlikely. When she withdraws, you withdraw. Silence and distance can say more than million words could, that's what experience has taught men when it comes to women...