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  1. bcude

    Explain me her behaviour

    Her actions are telling you that she doesn't value or wants to be near you. Find your self-respect and kick this ***** to the curve. if ANY communication is taking place she demoted herself to the lowest possible place through her behavior. The only thing women respond to are removal of...
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    The breakup kitchen fight scene

    Yeah swingers was fun, i actually saw this movie because of vince but it isn't worth your time. SPOILER WARNING: So the story in the movie is that she broke up with him because she wanted him to change to the better (in her eyes) and come running back. So she did while still living under the...
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    Female entitlement

    Why would you starve people you enjoy of attention? That's mainly used for women you're displeased with. Do your thing and live your life just as you want it but when you do spend time together, spend quality time, be present, give her your full attention, show that you care by doing things...
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    How to get out of her frame

    Yeah but not from lower value guys, which is exactly what you exhibit when you fail their tests by caving in and double text. You paint yourself as a desperate loser by doing that. Everything is about her perception of you. I may FEEL like superman right now, but i can't throw myself out of my...
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    The breakup kitchen fight scene

    Yeah, this has more layers to it. I agree with ShePays general view of this situation. That's how you should handle pretty much any situation with a woman, by seeing her as a child and be amused by her little tantrums while still be responsive to her like a good partner should within a...
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    How to get out of her frame

    Jeez, she probably wanted to but when you voluntarily put yourself beneath her, she started to question it and put up a test to see your reaction. She wants to fvck a man she sees as superior in some way, not a boy who's asking for permission, remember that for the future. Women mainly look at...
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    Current situation

    Yes, send this message right now and get it over with. Tomorrow you can start a new chapter.
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    Good friend insists on staying/being friends with my ex-girlfriend...

    Broes b4 hoes, always. Drop this friend of yours. His excuse is pure bullsh1t. He either tries to get to the sister through your ex, or his scarcity mindset just desperately craving some female validation. Either way he has no morals and could have come to you FIRST like a good friend, but...
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    Why is girl fvkin on the first date a red flag?

    Whether they put out on the first date or not doesn't really matter if you're looking for something short term. What matters is that experience has taught many succesful men at this site that women who don't jump into bed with you on the first date has turned out to be better as long term...
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    When a woman pulls back, don't fight it...odds are things are not what they seem

    Yes and i'd like to add an important note here for beginners: With guys they're interested in. It's been proven time and time again that anxiety and lack of (romantic) control leads to obsession which leads to feelings of 'love' > i think of him SO much which must mean he's special - i must love...
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    can you regain status once its been lost?

    First ask yourself if you really want them or if you just want them to validate the new sober you. If yes to the former, proceed to action. Rejection is always better than regret.
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    Can you recommend self-help books?

    Although i haven't read it myself yet, many many people speak highly of this book having greatly impacted their life - The power of now, by Eckhart Tolle. The topic is more important than ever in today's world imo.
  13. bcude

    Is she playing games with me?

    ^^ What Stringpuller said I would suggest to stay away from sh1tting where you eat and just fvck with her (not literally) by bringing up her bf and that she should stay far away from me because i'm bad news etc. and flip the script. The worst thing you can do is to get emotionally involved in...
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    How to get out of thought / attitude of "chasing"?

    This is a problem with many nice guys who get run over in the end. They feel they are taken advantage of yet they give in despite the gut feeling saying no, so they're there for the lady to be kind because "it's the right thing to do" and hope something romantic will develop from it when she...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Welcome to the forum. When you’re arguing with her, you’re playing her game at that point, a game she is biologically designed to win and you are not. Women love attention in all forms, positive or negative doesn't matter. You're feeding the fire, and it looks like kindergarten they way you two...
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    How do you withdraw attantion?

    That ratio is general advice for normal communication, to subconsciously be seen as higher value and to keep the correct healthy intersexual power dynamic. For disrespect we act (by removing attention), we act because that's the only way she will understand she did something wrong, by feeling...
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    How to proceed after this flake?

    She wants all male attention and her caption telegraphs "i'm ready to slvt it up, who's down?!" Proceed accordingly.
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    How to proceed after this flake?

    That doesn't stop you from adopting the correct mindset, does it? Couldn't think of a better place to start this mindset shift.
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    How to proceed after this flake?

    That's exactly what the married nice guy says about women, until he one day gets cheated on by his wife and end up on forums like this to better himself not to be as naive about women's true nature in the future. After 10 years he most probably would have learned that women have much more...
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    Breaking NC with a good outcome?

    Well, in Okinawa (Japan) they say life begins at 80 so you're still a toddler matey. If she's objectively as hot as she's in your eyes, then she won't be used to men walking away, mean it and NOT cave in which will make her reach out to you most definately given enough time. On top of all the...
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