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"only" is a dangerous word here I think; what if "only" 3's and 4's or some 5's with red flags have high IL in me? I can only improve my SMV so much

Good chat, thanks everyone

Does this resonate with others?

Because you were trying to be something you're not; you can't "lose" what you don't have in the first place

I've noticed that 80% of the time, I'm the person that reaches out to people. And with women, that number pretty much goes up to 99%. I'm gonna live my life and do my thing, which is busy enough, and let people reach out first more. If they don't, I'll at least know who is legit and who to cut...

None of these “player” and “game” suggestions resonate with me, how I behave and my character, I’m done playing games just to try to get a woman, and any man that is trying to be something he’s not to do so, is pathetic in my opinion that doesn’t have any true value but is trying to fake it -...

Yep

Yeah that doesn't work, many of women here unmatch even after the first greeting I send them

This won't make them initiate the desire of a second date

Not possible with OLD

Well, she did text me right after and we chatted on my train ride home, but after that day, it was only me who initiated a few short convos (first date was 2 weeks ago)

I've been on a number of first dates these last few weeks and all apart from one (which raised red flags) have not actively initiated contact/messages. They always reply fast and we have a good back and forth, but nothing initiating on their own. I don't act particularly different from my usual...

That’s my question; how can we know what we know but still love them?

Because I want a human connection with a potential life mate, and not have her be a piece of meat

That’s a good one, thank you

Of course. This is much easier in my mid-to-late 30's now, but you know how entitled they all are; just cut ties with one that's a 3 that thinks she's an 8.

I started thinking about this the other day. Most of us here being red pill aware, we know that often women won’t love a man for who he is but what he can do for her. I cannot seem to shake this notion with the new dates and my radar is on DEFCON 1. The notion of “she’s probably looking for a...

That's exactly my feeling as well

So I'm noticing this month that a lot of women are more eager to go on dates etc., between late 20's and early 30's. Anyone else having a similar experience?

I’m not actively pursuing that one, I have 2-3 other plates going that are a bit older (late 20’s, early 30’s) and close to me too, good input fellas