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Well, good to know that no actual practical advise comes from this place when one actually needs it

Tumbleweed?

How do you raise IL to the level where they actually message you first? I get likes etc., have them watch my stories among the first ones, but they don't message first

I can’t even get them to go out once; that’s why I posted this thread

You're suggesting that we mold our online profiles so that we have the best chance with women. What if our profiles are molded for professional/business/creative purposes?

So, back to the question in the title - suppose I have an interesting life and travel etc., but still have issues raising or maintaining high IL over IG, how would you go around solving that?

I do

Do guys love getting/making photos of themselves so much? I, for one, hate it

What do you mean "I'm in them"? I'm not fond of putting myself in photos, I find that pretty narcissistic

My IG is full of music (my side career and biggest passion) and some travel every few months or so

Because I'm an introvert and don't feel good approaching women in real life - never did, and I also live in a country where I don't speak native langue too well and am below the average height of guys here, so natural disadvantage.

I've had some cases where the first dates were cancelled on the day due to some bullsh1t exuse or "other engagements". I think this is due to low interest level on their side. How do you balance the level of IL so that it's high but not having to chat too much to her before the first date? They...

I can relate, I travel quite a lot. Problem is these topics are the only thing women can be related with; any ACTUAL interesting topics of substinance or deeper conversations are not interesting to them so they lose interest incredibly fast. Only to return the next time I’m travelling again. I’m...

And again, travelling a lot this month, consistently being proven women "like" the traveling stories and crap but don't care about the actual stuff/work that I do with passion, which in the end results in me travelling. If you're not there for the grind and the passion, you won't be there for...

Another thing that's happening is that it's the friends of the hot girl I want that end up hitting on me for some reason. They're coworkers, too. It's a curse I tell ya

Sexflation

I've been travelling last two weeks and I'm coming back to this thread to reconfirm that again, when posting travelling stories, I get the most direct messages from women for some reason. Crazy

That is some high school sh1t right there; I know who I am, I've had the same style (wearing black 95% of the time no matter what anyone says, as that's what I am), but shaved my head in the last few years due to genetic balding and maybe a few additional pounds which I can't shake unless I...

Are you seriously suggesting I change and not be my true self just to get women's attention? Get outta here

I'm a busy guy, I have the second date with a girl 4 weeks after the first one, both on Saturday night