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I've learned to stop asking after they don't meet for the first time or after they're avoiding trying to meet for the second time

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Germany

I don’t speak the native language of the country I’m living in, and people here are cold and arrogant by nature, so I’ve partially also become like that over the years I’ve lived here - maybe as a defense mechanism

I don’t turn the conversations sexually because anytime I’ve tried that, they’ve straight up bailed or ghosted me; so yeah it’s the “let’s meet for drinks”

No idea, I’d have to see a video of myself and my date in order to look at what it potentially could be, really can’t think of anything.

There is no difference in how I treat them

Can you give some examples? My photos are pretty decent and I have my IG linked (but the posts there are musical for the most part, as that is my side career). Using a template for conversations seems like shooting yourself in the foot when you then meet in person and the conversation isn't...

What do you mean?

I'm not interested in some crazy activities, let alone now in the summer when it's so hot I'm sweating just walking around for some time; I prefer a good conversation

I can detect high interest, but it's usually some 3/10 at work I have absolutely zero interest in

- I don't think so, I think they're pretty up to date - Fine, I'm a good conversationalist and easy to get along, but I might not be the funnest guy, I'm more the deep and brooding kind of guy I take it you're on the funner and easier side for women want to hang out with you again

My mental toughness has become mental numbness; I hardly feel anything, which doesn't help in connecting with people. - Yes, OLD. - After the first date, they either make up an excuse to meet again or just reject me with the "I didn't feel a connection"

I go to the gym or workout otherwise a few times a week; little less last few weeks as I'm having the busiest summer of my life so far. I don't approach people.

I don't know what this "Mode One" thing is, but I've never ever approached strangers in my life; and the few times I tried for whatever reason, it came across as cringe and everyone felt like that never happened.

None of these numbers mean anything as they're all relative, i.e. Money (10), what does that mean? Same with career? Lifestyle - 10 is what, according to who? What about YOUR own wishes, which can mean staying in most days and doing things society would consider less exciting, does that mean a...

I'm 37, with a good career and a good creative side career. However over the last 1,5 years since I've been single, I've only (except 1) had rejections / first dates that never went on to become second dates. OK, I get that it's a numbers game, but whenever I get rejected (like I said, almost...

What does that matter?

Doesn't matter if they ask you what your height is from the get go and then swipe left when the reality doesn't match their want

Another case from last night, met with a Ukrainian girl (26), had a good time, then she says we'll text and now messages me that she didn't feel the chemistry. What does it take with these women these days? Whether I'm being myself or trying to be something else (a.k.a playing the game), neither...