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    Too much pointless complaining from men these days

    I don't understand what that means
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    Too much pointless complaining from men these days

    No, got a promotion at work and significantly bumped my side career to the top of my game
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    Too much pointless complaining from men these days

    OK, took a year hiatus from dating and manosphere content, still no change. Now what?
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    Reaching 40, successful, no luck with women

    Work. As someone asked, I'm 1,71m, which is considered short in Germany. I'm also bald (head shaved). I'm white. I cannot quit my day job, I'm well off because of it. I have all of those books, read them through and through, as well as many others. Doesn't make a **** of difference with women...
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    Reaching 40, successful, no luck with women

    I’ll be moving out of Germany in a few years, I just can’t stand the people and the society here. I’m not looking 40, I’m 38 but looking 33-35 I’d say since I don’t smoke, drink and am not super overweight. I’ve had 10 gfs so far, my longest one was 2 or 3 years I think.
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    Reaching 40, successful, no luck with women

    That's true, except my confidence...One can only do so many failed attempts without any success before feeling it's not even possible
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    Reaching 40, successful, no luck with women

    Yeah I do that, but my problem is I mistake friendliness with IOI, which makes for a lot of awkwardness down the road
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    Reaching 40, successful, no luck with women

    People in prison? They have all the time in the world to not do anything else, what is this comparison? I'm talking about not having energy. "Opening multiple sets" ah, you're one of the pick up guys, I see
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    Reaching 40, successful, no luck with women

    You don't have all the details - I can't move yet. "Practice more" - I tried, it leads nowhere but to even worse anxiety than before. How do you find 1 hour of gym time most days when you work 9 - 18, come home, then work on the side hustle for the rest of the day? It's tiring enough as it is...
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    Reaching 40, successful, no luck with women

    I tried going out but my anxiety as well as the fact I don’t speak smooth German prevents me from effectively communicate with women here - I tried initiating contact a few times but the result and the fear is so bad I just don’t do it. And due to my job and side hustle I don’t have the energy...
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    Reaching 40, successful, no luck with women

    I've massively upped my financial and social status in the last two years. My physique is almost the same as it was, maybe a bit worse due to being tired from work and my side business, which leaves very little energy to go to the gym regularly. Hopefully with warmer days ahead, I can go biking...
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    Happy New year goals!

    Feel better Lose 10 pounds and go to gym consistently Continue my creative work streak that I hit in 2023 Get laid (no pros), it's been over 2 years since the last time
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    Haven't done it in 2 years and can't get a second date (if I even get the first one)

    I have no idea how the people that are making a full time job 9-18, side business and also have some life find time several times a week to work out and yet eat little enough to not collapse and have actual energy for all they need to do
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    Haven't done it in 2 years and can't get a second date (if I even get the first one)

    I had interesting interactions with two chicks these days. I just had a major milestone in my creative career and quite a few women slid into my DM’s. I chatted with a few of them and two of them out of nowhere sent me a pic of their kids. Is this just a signal I shouldn’t expect this to be...
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    Haven't done it in 2 years and can't get a second date (if I even get the first one)

    I’m curious what are things you would consider fun?
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