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I enjoy communication with women, but it seems to have become more difficult recently. They're putting in minimum effort to talk, either over text or in person. I don't know. I can't enjoy the conversation if it feels like the woman isn't enjoying it either, and at that point the fear increases...

I know, indifference makes the biggest difference for sure. I just can't switch it off when I keep getting oneitis over and over again. I don't have enough women that I'm talking to / dating at the same time, the only time I was actively dating several women was when I was 27. I was indifferent...

How?

I do that to some degree, but not actively. It just feels forced when I do that out of nowhere.

I don't do small talk unless forced to (mostly at work), and then I keep it to minimum. I'm a quiet person for the most part and don't really talk a lot unless I have something to say.

10 (I'm 37)

I'm 37, am doing well for myself, average looks I'd say but under average height for the country I'm living in, stable day job and interesting sidecareer, going to the gym, but when it comes to women I'm not the best. Whenever I fall for a girl, I fall for a beautiful one (of course) and can't...

Absolutely, I'd pick a neutral city to meet in anyways, plenty of interesting ones here so

No of course, thanks for your input. I'm not sure what about this is cringy, but now she's changing her mind and says that she would feel unsafe travelling across the country to meet a stranger and would prefer if I travel to meet her there for the first time. I don't have time to do that next...

Actually no, okcupid

Good point

I'm talking to this Ukrainian hottie that lives in the same country but 4 hrs drive away, we're talking about me bringing her over to my city for a nice time and potentially getting a hotel room together for a night together. I mentioned my place but she says in her culture it's very indecent...

jesus christ cringe

I will, it'll be easier now that we won't work so close to each other anymore. Social media is the problem, that's fvcking the whole thing up

Didn't get the chance to ask her in person as I was too slammed, so will have to do it virtually. And just when I thought things couldn't get more complicated, my boss invites a small group of people (including her) to his house for a party in a few weeks, fml. Last goddamn thing I need right...

Hey what do you guys think of watching porn without fapping before you go out and communicate with women? I find that it makes me more sexually agressive (I of course don't act on it as such), but it manifests in my confidence and masculine frame and behavior

It's about her willingness to submit to you; if she's not, she's not *truly* feeling that she can fully submit to you

Nice to read this, this is what indifference in outcome will get you. However, it also signals that you go for almost anything and are not picky with women at all (at least judging that you're willing to have them over to your place so fast). And yeah, it'll only work if they're somewhat easy...

Day 21 here, definitely seeing increase in confidence and energy, also better results with the woman I'm pursuing, she senses it as well in my increased confidence, it's also showing at work and that I'm more direct and honest with people

Probably not uncommon; even with my last LTR it came down to once every 1-2 weeks (we'd only see each other on the weekends), it's been a natural thing with LTR's for me somehow. I masturbated in addition to that, of course (wanting to fvck other women). Some say that it's biological as once a...