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  1. BeTheChange

    Success Journal - LTR and Family as the goal

    Just hit the salsa bar an hour ago and the hot chick from last night was there. She gave me her number almost straight away. Looks like tonight is going to be a good night!
  2. BeTheChange

    Success Journal - LTR and Family as the goal

    By some absolutely amazing luck, the CEO of the company I work for has had to fly out to attend to some international business so I'll be able to work from home for the next one or two weeks. I'm keeping my approaches at 3 today since I'm at the office now, and then 10 a day for the next couple...
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    I really am sorry for all my nonsense on this site

    Depends what kind of women you want...some here are happy to bang 6s and 7s and speak as if this is the same thing as banging 9s. Bigdave is actually right about this. Financial success, health, fitness, high intelligence and game are extremely rare in a single person. If you want to pull 8s...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Day 56 Contacting the ex is the path of least resistance. Justify it anyway you want but that is the road of the weak man. A man with confidence, a man with options, a man who knows his value doesn't chase an ex. Approaching hot chicks daily is harder than the alternative. Desensitising...
  5. BeTheChange

    Success Journal - LTR and Family as the goal

    Hit my first Bachata night in a long time. Had to leave early but could already see the quality of the poon was stellar. Approached 3 girls. Asked one for the number. Had a decent conversation with her but she wouldn't give it out. Giggled about us bumping into each other again dancing and...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Fvck this sh*t. Temporary thoughts of weakness. I've been saying to myself time and time again if I can't replace her with atleast ONE girl who is as hot or hotter than her then I never 'deserved' her to begin with. I just came out of my first bachata night in a year. Had to leave early before...
  7. BeTheChange

    Success Journal - LTR and Family as the goal

    UK predominantly, but I'll likely be spending a few weekends across the rest of Europe in 2019.
  8. BeTheChange

    Success Journal - LTR and Family as the goal

    Yeah these are absolutely a given. I am actually dating someone who for the most part, satisfies the criteria you mentioned, but just isn't quite 'enough' for me physically. And given she is still young (25) it will only get worse. Already decided if I've not found a 'unicorn' by this time next...
  9. BeTheChange

    Success Journal - LTR and Family as the goal

    I've been doing the 60 day NC challenge and have 5 days to go. Decided I'm going to start the 30 day cold approach challenge, since this is the weakest part of my game. Want to build this into a long term habit. Even if it was 1 HOT girl a day long term that would be 365 women a year. Going to...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Day 55 Cheers man. Last few days have seen a shift in my thinking as I've been contemplating the merits of contacting my ex at some point after NC, probably in January. Why January? Well I'd like to believe I'm thinking objectively by now but another two months would definitely make things...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Day 54 Birthday a few days ago. Didn't get a text from the ex. Wasn't expecting one. Don't have any strong feelings about it. Hard to believe by the end of this week it'll be 60 days and the challenge will have been 'completed'. Definitely glad I went NC. Even the breakup itself was the right...
  12. BeTheChange

    Success Journal - The journey to actualising one's potential

    It was my 30th birthday recently. Over the past few weeks I've been reflecting on how I can get closer to the ideal man I'd like to be. I've detailed in previous posts how I've intended to aspire to be better but never wrote down (in this thread at least) what that would actually look like...
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    Success Journal - LTR and Family as the goal

    What I want Non-negotiables: Fitness Freak. Doesn’t need to be gym, although this would be ideal due to the shared interest and the stronger likelihood of a squat butt. However as great as the peach is, this is more about lifestyle. Time waits for no-one and a healthy lifestyle is one of the...
  14. BeTheChange

    Success Journal - LTR and Family as the goal

    Physically this is my ideal. Saw her in an instagram post some time last week. Don't know if she is an actual fitness model. My last ex had a very similar body type - looks to be around the same fat %, body shape, shoulders, etc. Ex had a better ass and legs but not quite as pretty in the face...
  15. BeTheChange

    Success Journal - LTR and Family as the goal

    I am a firm believer in accountability; that people pretty much get what they deserve in life. You are responsible for your outcomes, your successes and your failures. Don’t blame the market or social media, or the pill, or slvt culture or feminism. Good women, at least how most people in...
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    Success Journal - The journey to actualising one's potential

    Thank you mate. I try and stay humble. There are people who have achieved more by the time they turned 16 and yet many who will never accomplish what we have in their entire lives. As cliche as it sounds the game is about trying to be the best version of yourself. You are only truly answerable...
  17. BeTheChange

    Stop Dating Old Women!

    Those who date older women are generally in the same category as chubby chasers or men without children who date single mothers. It's only a problem when they try and justify it as some sort of virtue when in reality they are just going for the low hanging fruits. We can't all be winners I...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Day 47 Another great day. Stick with NC guys. You'll feel so much better after a couple of weeks. Main chick HB7.5 continues to show high interest. Two other chicks I've been talking to on and off for weeks are back in the city and want to meet this week. All atleast HB7s. Closing is my...
  19. BeTheChange

    AMA about girls with BPD

    Getting abused by a BPD has more to do with the man than the woman. Men with true confidence don't get taken for a ride like that. Fix your internal issues/childhood traumas/insecurities and you'll have nothing to worry about. If I had met my BPD ex from 2013 now she would have been dropped...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Day 45 Best day I’ve had so far internally. NC gets your confidence, and self-respect back, gives you clarity, helps you see the bigger picture and allows you to approach women going forward from a position of strength. When I think about where I was at the end of each of my three serious...
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