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Finally at stage in my life where I have the means to travel regularly without flinching at the costs. It's my main plate's birthday coming up soon and I've made it a new year's resolution to get away from home once a month so killing two birds with one stone. What's the best way to execute the...

Can you elaborate on this guru? I'm in a delicate situation where I've been seeing a girl for three months now. It's likely she'll press for exclusivity at some point. Although she's fine for plate status (solid HB7/7.5), she isn't quite hot enough for the girlfriend title (HB8+). She's...

How much do you exagerate your height by online? I'm 5'9 and claim 5'10 but given it seems most women dock 2 inches when looking at height online I may actually be understating things!

Law 40: Despise the Free Lunch What is offered for free is dangerous—it usually involves either a trick or a hidden obligation. What has worth is worth paying for. By paying your own way you stay clear of gratitude, guilt, and deceit. It is also often wise to pay the full price—there are no...

Lol. You dozens of post in this thread suggest otherwise. Take your own advice to bigdave and shed your ego ;) PS See what I did with the emoji there? :P

You say you want a "dominant" man to lead and then come up with stuff like this. Unbelievable. Men don't care about your career or how much money you make anywhere near as much as you think. You're making the typical feminist error of looking at attractive qualities in men (wealth, status...

No. You should rid yourself of your obvious neediness. If we're going to be anecdotal most of the "happy" marriages I see - friends who met at uni - had a push pull dynamic at some point early on, almost always in the guy's favour. The only exception to this I have seen is like you said...

It's basic psychology. People want what they can't have. Scarcity creates value. It's a fantasy. If you want an LTR then you hand over power to women. Women don't get wet over that which they have power over. It's a a fundamentally masculine position. You say you have always been LTR minded...

Might be because I'm getting used to being single again but finding an LTR is no longer a priority anymore. Enjoying spinning plates. Glad to be back in the game! Patience is the supreme virtue of the gods...Everything good will happen - the grass will grow again, if you give it time

It's a spectrum though. Dismissive avoidant ENTJ. So guess we are almost opposites. All my LTRs have said my "problem" is I don't show enough affection, too emotionally distant, act like I don't care, etc. This alone probably wouldn't be a deal breaker, but I also have high standards for...

Life is great. Text my ex gf after over 2 months of NC. Told her I was happy to hear she was doing well and vice versa. Suggested we grab a drink to catch up before the Christmas break and she declined, saying she didn’t want to see me right now because it would be “too painful”. I was an...

Current plate, HB7.5 actually showing genuine gf potential. Body-wise she is actually not too far off the girl in the picture I uploaded. The only major "problem" is that she lacks the hour glass figure due to her bone structure. She's slim and has a nice butt which is getting better as she's...

Day 60 - The End I was planning to write some deep, inspirational post but honestly there's nothing new that hasn't already been said. 60 days in. She never reached out and probably never will. That's ok. NC is about allowing you to maintain your self respect and getting you to a place of...

Day 59 Abundance mentality. You are as good as your last close. Even though I’ve moved on quicker than in previous breakups (e.g. BPD ex), as I'm generally a more confident and centred than I was a few years ago, I never maintained a sense of loss after two months of NC like I do now. I believe...

Not doing any approaches today as been working long hours and still burning the candle now. Had something come up with a real estate purchase I'm trying to finance so that annoyed me and has taken most of my attention these last few hours. Plate is coming round tonight. On her period but...

Another great salsa night with a few of the lads. Got the 3 approaches locked down. Just having a good time chatting to random guys and chicks. Took a number of a Spanish HB8. Great ass and legs. Something I need to manage with more finesse is dealing with interactions from other chicks after I...

It's looking very much like my job at the VC firm won't be lasting past 2018, with the battering that blockchain projects and the crypto market has taken this year. Decided to review my expenses and cut back on self indulgent costs: - Cut therapy out. Don't need to be spending almost $100 a...

It's looking like I'll actually have a lot of work to do over the next few weeks so dropping approaches back down to 3, which is better anyway given I'm focusing on quality over quantity. Had to drop the girl from the previous post as it turns out she isn't under 30. Working all day and then...

All of this post is pure fiction. My only purpose in life is women? My relationships ended because I was obsessed with my gfs and they didn't respect me? Lol. Ok then. Tenacity tried to do the same thing in my Wealth and Success when I just got started. Haters gonna hate!

Double post.