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  1. BeTheChange

    Success Journal - The journey to actualising one's potential

    Late update for the month of April. Net worth at $325k largely due to the valuation uplift from a refurb on my third property. We strippedall wallpaper and ceilings dispose of rubbish, fitted a new bathroom and kitchen, replastered and redecorated the whole house, fitted in a new boiler, removed...
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    how do you play the numbers game while also pursuing your career

    Honestly you can't. Everything has an opportunity cost. Why do you think Premier League footballers are actively encouraged by their managers to find long term partners / get married in their early 20s? Same reason why most midde class / upper middle class career minded men are married by their...
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    Jeff Bezos' Ex-Wife Gets $36 Billion In Divorce Settlement

    The fact that half the supposedly "red pill" posters in this thread are saying she deserves the money speaks volumes for the state of men. I guess some men really are just built for serfdom more than others. The man was a Vice President, within a few year's of graduating, at one of Wall...
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    Success Journal - The journey to actualising one's potential

    Contracts have been exchanged and completion is set for Monday. Looking forward to picking up the keys. Net worth now sits at $300k! I banged that tinder date but she was a good 2 points lower in person than she came across on the app so I didn't bother calling her after. I was so disappointed...
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    How Do We Get Our Leverage Back?

    This is actually a very good post. Would suggest others to really read what is being said here and embrace the philosophy. Be more, care less. This is the only way to achieve that state.
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    Success Journal - The journey to actualising one's potential

    Almost finished up on the latest property deal, which will be my first of the year and third overall investment property. The lawyers are finalising details and a completion date should be set shortly - likely to be mid March close. There's a nice little equity buffer in there to as they...
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    article: 10 Countries Where Men Have Difficulties Finding a Wife

    Italy is also the only country in Western/Southern Europe that has a 1:1 gender ratio in the 15 - 24 year old category (which is remarkable) and more women than men in the 25 - 54 year old split. For comparison the US is 105 men for 100 women in the former and 1:1 for one in the latter. The City...
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    AAAgent's Crypto Journey

    Now is the time to be accumulating. I am 90% in BTC and ELA.
  9. BeTheChange

    This site vs reality

    Lol ok bro. You are attacking argument I'm not even making. But whatever makes you sleep at night
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    This site vs reality

    Yeah. I'm 30 now and 1 in 10 single sounds about right. It actually takes a tremendous amount of willpower not to just fall in line and settle with the nearest decent piece of ass that shows interest when all your friends, social and professional circles are pairing up like they've got tickets...
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    This site vs reality

    No strong opinion but looking around I don’t see too much of this singles epidemic, which is lauded as evidence of the end times amongst many posters here. I work in a team of 10 and we were all discussing our plans for Valentines. Turns out I’m the only one who’s single. I don’t see this as...
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    So she just admitted to cheating on me.

    Good post. What other book recommendations would you suggest other than the ones you mentioned?
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    Success Journal - The journey to actualising one's potential

    Been a while since an update. Settled into my new contract pretty well and it’s highly likely I’ll be invoicing these guys, on what is a hefty day rate, till at least July. Offer has been accepted on my latest potential acquisition – a 2 bedroom maisonette. It has a double garage that I’m...
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    What are your financial aspirations?

    Just turned 30. I landed a fairly lucrative role in the new year and so make the before tax equivalent of $250k a year at the moment, from my various sources of income. 70% comes from my 9 - 5 (more like 9 to 9 most days) 20% comes from my position as COO of a start-up I'm helping out (side...
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    Surprising plate with weekend trip

    Full post here. I'm 30 and IME this graph is eerily accurate. Extremely rare to meet a woman in her 30s that I think has comparable SMV to my own. Less than one in ten. Can only imagine that things will get even better in the next five years. Work on mind and body, get your money situation...
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    Surprising plate with weekend trip

    LOL. Ok "kuz". Stay off the cough syrup.
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    Surprising plate with weekend trip

    Exactly. Glad someone gets it. Threads like this definitely separate the experienced (frame is everything) from the incels (black and white thinking, arbitrary rules with no exceptions, etc). She's the main plate at the moment but I'm casually dating one other. Have no intention of being...
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    Surprising plate with weekend trip

    I live in Europe so country to country flights are pretty cheap (e.g. France to Germany) Of course you are. And with half of your income going to your ex wife presumably? This is something you do with a girlfriend. The point I'm making is taking a weekend trip away with someone doesn't...
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    Surprising plate with weekend trip

    If spending $100 on an extra plane ticket to a place you are visiting anyway is "work" then you need to re-evaluate your life or improve your income potential. There's a scene in the first few episodes of House of Cards that always strikes a chord. Meechum, Frank Underwood's security guard is...
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    Surprising plate with weekend trip

    That's a great idea BE but difficult as I don't know her friends too well nor have their contact details. Also haven't met her family either (they don't live in the country or even speak English!).
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