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I thought there was a general idea that sleeping around for women is a bad thing, because it makes it harder for them to pair bond later. Increasing the odds of single motherhood, and raising children without fathers? And if you think that is a bad thing, while also sleeping with those women...

But isn't going after pleasure, what's destroying the west? Isn't that what women who sleep around are doing? And what we say is degenerate?

But that's due to feminism ignoring alot of what the bible says. If you actually follow what the bible says, wouldn't you then live according to God, and not feminism? Like lets say you find a girl that's open to being religious and she agrees to follow you, because that's what the bible...

Hi! So I actually think I've tried to become a Christian, as a way to feel safe that the person I'm with won't leave me? And as an excuse for me to continue in my blue pill ways? Is this a possibility? Religion is seriously making me confused, cause I look at the world today as a lacking of...

Yeah I agree. It's such a contrast to the old testament.

My advise would be to stick to a shedule every week. Mine is monday, wednsday and friday. If you don't feel lkke you have the energy to workout, do atleast something. Warmup, train bodyweight exercises at home, do lighter weights etc. Getting in the routine is the most important and over time...

My opinion is that checking up on friends activity is positive (If I don't I also get fomo). Using it to scroll through random posts is negative and should be avoided. I don't use Tik tok, as none of my friends post anything there, only instagram and facebook. I also like to see the post of...

It's low effort imo. And thats why I think it's worth it.

You all were right, from our conversations I found her to be AWALT. She didn't care if I was Christian myself. Maybe it was mostly about virtue signaling. She was nice to talk to, but not like she was any different. I actually think that if you want to be in a relationship with Christian values...

Good advice. I'll see how it goes. But the reason I'm a bit unsure is because I assume she's look for a Christian man aswell, and from what I understand most of the red pill advice goes against Christian way of living when it comes to dating.

She's very smiley and looks very natural in all her pictures. I assume she's one of those wait until you're gonna marry before sex etc. Should I ask her about her Christian values, how much she values them etc. Or just assume she's AWALT? The reason I'm asking is because I know she has the same...

I have to contemplate that. But yes, I think it stems from blue pill ideology.

Yes, as I replied to the other guy. I think it's the problem I have of leaving a girl. And it's part of my blue pill ideal "to death do us apart" mentality. That if I leave a girl, then my investment in the relationship has been wasted, and I'm a bad guy for leaving her.

I guess I have this idea of investment, that if I invest alot in a girl, she cheats and then I leave her, then my "investment" and involvement in the relationship was wasted. Maybe that's the problem? And it's part of the blue pill ideal "to death do us apart"?

I guess another question is: Should men accept that their gf's might be cheating, if the man isn't particularly attractive? (Even if you are attractive aswell). Because if you don't approve of it, you're "oppressive". If you accept it, you're a cuck. What is the most rational way of dealing...

I don't mean doomed in the sense of living an unfulfilled life, but doomed when it comes to mating. It's a question about becoming a MGTOW or a cuck if he's not in the top 20% (In regards of women). I guess it hard to answer these questions, because who decides if a man is top 20% or not (In...

I don't view myself to be in the top 20%. But lets say by implementing red pill principles I manage to get a gf and keep her attraction high to me. Does this mean I became a top 20% or am I only keeping her because I provide commitment, comfort and attention for her? And if you're not a 20%'er...

So 80% are doomed to become betas/providers that women cheat on? I guess I'm asking this, because I can see how if the bar is being raised it can cause more men to become blackpilled and give up. Or more men going MGTOW. Or some men might believe they can't reach the bar, so they accept their...

Will the 20/80 rule widen, or will the bar for entering the 20/80 become higher?

Yep, it comes across as much more pleasant. It depends alot on how the other person texts aswell. Sometimes people just write without exclamation marks and smiley, and you have to imagine what kind of expression she is using while texting.