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I elaborated on the school dance thing. As for the football games and holiday party, I don't want to elaborate a whole lot (luckily I didn't wet myself). Let's just say when you have social phobia and are unfamiliar with social norms, big events are a disaster. Here's one example from a...

I respect you and your contributions to this forum. I don't have to agree 100% with anyone on here. There is nuance with educated White women. Also, a White woman with a bachelor's degree may be different in attitude than a White woman with an advanced degree. Educated White women are very...

Only getting one pity dance at the high school dance was humiliating. I never should have gone. I don't even want to elaborate on the humiliation at the college football games and the holiday party (the story is worse)

She is recent divorcee at age 53. Her marriage ended in 2022 after 24 years. It seems like she got a good enough divorce settlement. She is renting a place in Westchester County, New York, an upscale suburban area. https://www.cnbc.com/2012/04/26/Americas-10-Richest-Counties.html It looks...

Where exactly is the humiliation? :rolleyes:

That might be the case. I also think the isolated man has no buffer for rejection. Therefore, rejections hold more weight than they might had such a man been appropriately socialized. If a man has friends, close family members, or other people who care about and love him, rejection means little...

Ok.

Other than a brief stretch in college, I've been pretty socially disconnected/isolated for 20 years now (ever since my childhood best friend left me for the cool kids) One theory I have for why the socially disconnected/isolated are more uptight about rejection: If our social disconnect goes...

If a guy has a track record of humiliating himself at social events, does it reach a point where he should throw in the towel (and stop putting himself in positions to get humiliated)? I went to one school dance in high school. Humiliated myself (and all I got was one pity dance from a hot girl...

Not sure what race has to do with this, sounds to me like you're using it as an excuse for lack of success or trying to cope, but I'll play your game., I'm a black guy in a mostly white state (78%) and I have dealt with those "bougie white women"and educated white women etc that you're talking...

The timing of Roosh's "Day Bang" is interesting (2011). By 2011, we were starting to notice some ill effects the tech era was having on a guy's chances with a woman (although certainly nothing like 2024). It's possible that's why there was a need for Roosh to publish the book. How alarming to...

I read Roosh's "Day Bang" very soon after it was published in September 2011. I transitioned more of my practice from nightlife venues to non-bar. I was in my late 20s then and seeking a way out of the bars. I had been aware of daygame as early as my early 20s but never knew how to put daygame...

For me daygame transformed my life - yes it was time consuming but I learnt a great deal from it and when done right it can be incredibly awarding . I made a lot of connections and enjoyable experiences and all together felt more appreciated in these relationships it also grew my social...

It's been said on this forum that a woman will no longer settle for an average man because gone are the days when a woman absolutely needed a man for survival. Your post (about how the woman you know has only gotten casual sex on apps; nothing close to marriage) illustrates the flipside: Just...

This is true at a high level. However, it is worth examining some of the details. Some problems may emerge in the "living his life" part of it. As a result, that will make finding longer term relationships more difficult. A lot of unattached men do not have a day-to-day routine that is going to...

Great worded post Still on reflection of being in London and surrounded by middle/upper classes I still think increasing options is tough for the vast majority of men if they live in a competitive city . Looking at the view of London a city which is full of roughly 200,000 millionaires being a...

I think you're spot on but there is a flipside to what you're saying. Those things won't matter if you're dealing with a down-to-earth chick who really digs you. If you're trying to date a bougie chick, higher educated chick, or IG model type then yeah those things will matter a lot more. The...

I have known women in real life that have had the same thing happen to them. I have a female acquaintance who has a similar life story. She's now in her late 30s but what I am about to describe has been happening throughout her 30s. She's mediocre looking and I think most men would probably...

We're similar in height. Interestingly, I never recall my height being the reason broads have treated me poorly. Possibly because of all the other baggage I have working against me.

My sense is that this is likely a temporarily feeling. I think you are feeling the after effects of the end of a bad relationship. You did pick a subpar partner for an LTR. You acknowledge that she added some value to your life. Her abusiveness and some other bad traits ultimately caused the...