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    Whats wrong with me?

    I am currently just pursuing her at the moment. You are right, I invest too much too fast. I think you are right when you say that I need to just approach more women. But are there also guys who pursue minimal women but still don't get hung up? Is the only way to prevent this **** feeling to...
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    Whats wrong with me?

    I am 21, male, on a big college campus in Texas. Last week I approached a girl at the pool, got her #. Called her up a few days ago, we did dinner. She was amazing, very unique interests, great conversationalists, beautiful face/figure. We went back to my place and watched a movie/made out. I...
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    How to get over a large emotional investment?

    It's really common in the 20s? That is good to hear. Can you share some experiences? BTW, are you married? Also, how exactly do I "find myself" ?
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    How to get over a large emotional investment?

    BTW, I sincerely apologized to her a few nights ago. I told her I couldn't believe some of the things I did to her. I told her I was sorry for ending our beautiful relationship so that I could go chase some other *****es. She told me it was okay and that the past is the past. I never expressed...
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    How to get over a large emotional investment?

    You are right. I am 20 years old. She is definitely definitely bitter about how I dumped her. She told me I treated her horribly and she cannot believe she let me treat her that way, and that I should never treat any girl like that. I can't get back with her nor do I want to, I just cant bring...
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    How to get over a large emotional investment?

    I broke up with my first girlfriend about 6 months ago. We dated for roughly two years. We had a passionate relationship and we were both each other's first sexual experience. She was a good girlfriend. She took care of me, but I was a jerk, I would not devote enough time to her and treated her...
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    How to react towards mixed signals?

    Me and this girl met three weeks ago, we hit it off by hanging out three times in the first week. Each time we made out and got physical in my bed for two hours. She tells me she rarely does this, and I do believe her because I know her history from other people. I have also heard she doesn't...
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    Forget showing her a good time + vanishing, more like out of sight out of mind

    **** the whole idea of showing a girl a good time and vanishing because its all bull****. Kelly Clarkson said it best "out of sight out of mind". backup story read here: I brought 3 girls to my apartment after a party about 1.5 weeks ago. One of them instantly fell asleep. The other two both...
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    FR: College Party + LMR

    Yeah I got her phone number, she also got into my computer and put her nick into my AIM. I guess that was another IOI. I think I made a crucial error when she told me to tell her friend to leave, but I didn't. That may have been an easy make out. She lives 100 miles away, I'm not going to...
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    FR: College Party + LMR

    I was at a college party doing my thing. I knew like 70% of the people there so I had incredible social proof. There were three girls that travaled about 100 miles to come to the party. At one point in the night, the "leader" of this group of girls pulls me to the side and asks me if I'm persian...
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    Something I was told

    I was recently told that it seems nothing can ever get me down; ie. i never show any sadness or angry, like nothing can change my mood. And I was told it seems fake. What do you guys think about this?
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    problem...confused...

    I am in a bit of a confused point right now...my ex-girlfriend and I who have been broken up for a long time now (like 3 or something years b/c she cheated on me) now and we are sorta distant friends now. Lately i've been trying to get her interested in me, and we talked on the phone one time...
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    This girl is being weird.... rejected my kiss

    UPDATE: Since the rejected kiss about 3 weeks ago. I've seen the girl around campus twice, and both times I was doing well with the social proof and ignored her. She didnt approach me, but I did receive a message from her today saying ". . . For some strange reason i get the vibe that you...
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    This girl is being weird.... rejected my kiss

    I won't contact her again. I know she's expecting me to show up at this FBA meeting next monday, and I will show up with another hot girl by my side.
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    This girl is being weird.... rejected my kiss

    Also.. this same girl cancelled on our outing about two weeks, so I nexted her until she called me back and we arranged this outing, so she knows probably that i wont tolerate her bs games edit: i also did the kiss test (moved her hair ) and there was no flinching. What did i do wrong? i know...
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    This girl is being weird.... rejected my kiss

    I invited this girl over to watch a movie at my place. I get a bit of C&F and kino going. We get in bed to watch the movie (clothed). Some touching and cuddling going on. I go in for the kiss and she slowly pulls back, saying "don't you love it when girls play games?" in this cute smiley...
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    Totally blown off - How to punish her?

    I didnt call her out on her BS, but I did cut off the call pretty quickly afterwards, i know she'll call back later, specially after the incredible time i showed her last week
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    Totally blown off - How to punish her?

    I'm just not going to call her ass again..... and if she calls me, I'll be sure to be busy
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    Totally blown off - How to punish her?

    This girl called me up this afternoon and we wanted to hang out (first time outing with her). She said to call at 10, I did and got no answer. She called back 30 minutes later saying shes going clubbing. I played it off and told her to go for it, and when i tried to part she said how come you...
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