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I've done a search on Body Language and there's a ton of threads on the subject but I noticed that some threads say when sitting "You should lean back" when talking, while another says "You should lean forward." Which one is it? What if you're eating dinner and talking at some restaurant, you...

I swear this thread has provided me with a ton of info. Everytime I post on this site I get awesome answers. Thanks a million. PS, Maximus, good post.

Thanks for the input guys

A lot of times, women who I just meet and start dating ask me, "So how was your weekend?" or "What did you do over the weekend?" I always have a hard time answering this since I have no life, meaning outside interests and I just do normal everyday stuff like errands, and watching tv or going to...

Legolas - I read that article in the link you provided. It's amazing because when we were talking that night I had described a previous intimate encounter with a girl I had met years ago (I can't remember how it came up but that girl put me in the same situation) and she was uncomfortable with...

I agree. It's too bad most women on the internet that I've met are more interested in asking me "so, what do you do for fun?" The one that dropped me in my original post told me "we're coming form two different worlds" and I told her "yeah, you're looking for an activity partner (friend) and I'm...

Thanks for the inputs everyone. All of you make great points. The people who say I should move on... I know you're 100% right. I'm not in love with her and could easily do that. It's just she's one of those rare ones and I've put effort into this which is why I don't want to just move on. I used...

I'm sure this topic has been beaten to death but how do you make a girl forget her EX boyfriend? This girl I'm hanging out with keeps in touch with her long distance ex bf which she still has feelings for, but neither of them want to move to the other. I dropped this girl 3 months ago but then...

Bottom Line... shy childhood so I never learned this stuff. Besides I'm not really interested in learning this stuff which I feel could be my downfall with most women.

Just like Francisco said, I'm talking about real interests such as skiing, mountain biking, surfing, golfing, etc. not movies, dining out, etc. I lack the first ones I listed so they label me "boring" in their heads even though they find me physically attractive, funny and can keep a convo going...

Just a rant and rave. I met this girl off the net, went out with her 4 times and then she dropped me. It seems like I usually get past the attraction and personality phase but then if I don't have the same interests as them, then I'm out. What's the big deal with interests? Seems like they're...

Hey guys If you remember me at all, LOL, I'm the guy who went on 6 dates with this HB9 who appeared to have high interest in me (based on everything I've read) but just recently she had a phone interview for a job 2 states away in NY, while I'm in Boston. My previous post was "Is showing my...

Jack - nice post, I like that last paragraph. I'm still laughing about the screaming baby LOL. :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

Thanks for the replies everyone. Jack and Rollo, I agree with you but.... Unfortunately, I have not had sex with her since she's way too conservative. I know this causes a bonding issue and moves towards the LJBF zone which is why I've had to take it slowly with her using kino so I can "break...

Hey guys. I've had 6 dates with a 34 year old HB9 in a period of 2 months. Her interest level is on the rise and I'm breaking her conservative ways by using kino and she's reciprocated. I've "shown her" that I like her without "telling her" and she's done the same with me. She passes all the...

date#5 update If anyone is gonna read this, here's the update to this. I went to all the barnes and nobles in my area and couldn't find an ocean/scenic book that was good enough. But I did find a calendar book for 13 bucks with pictures of scenic areas/baby animals and penguins (she loves...

Amazing! That photobook idea was actually what I originally had in mind but I decided to drop it since the last date we had last Sunday was a trip to the bookstore and then a movie afterwards. The reason I dropped the idea was because we had just been there and if I bought her a book like that I...

Thanks for the reply, joekerr. Your logic about buying something considerate was the path I was leaning towards. I'm just not creative enough with gifts. I don't even know what to buy my parents, LOL. Buzzwords: She likes books, dining, ocean related stuff (we went to an aquarium) and a...

I've been dating this 34 yr old HB8. We've gone out 4 times (3 hour dates) and tomorrow is going to be #5. I always de-rate a girl's interest, but she's pretty interested in me IMO (touches me, kissed me, emails me, consistent, passes the "doc love rules" etc.) She's LTR material. My question...

Hello DJ's, I have some questions that perhaps someone may answer for me for which I'd appreciate. Suppose I took part in the DJ Boot Camp and approached some girls to get numbers, 1) Does anyone have any specific brand of clothes you should wear when approaching a chick to make you look...