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    Girlfriend ignoring messages / acting distant

    I don't txt her all day now, but have been guilty have sending multiple messages one after another. I think I am possibly overthinking, to a certain degree. But I don't deserve to be cursed at for just wanting to talk, maybe the time wasn't right but still. Which is why I said I don't want to...
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    Girlfriend ignoring messages / acting distant

    I already explained that. 200 messages were from me, 300 from her. Total 500. Of those, many were small messages like hey, ?, brb, etc. They were done while sitting home, train, car (waiting on lights, traffic), or free time at work or college. I am a security analyst consultant, so...
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    Girlfriend ignoring messages / acting distant

    MASSIVE UPDATE (DECISION MADE, NEED ADVICE ON ACTING ON IT) 9:53AM I woke up this morning to two text from her. GF: *big kiss emoticon, on viber if anyone is familiar* GF: "Goodmorning" 2PM: Me: "Goodmorning :*" (yeah I know, afternoon but fk it) 6:17PM GF: "Wow, I am so tired."...
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    Girlfriend ignoring messages / acting distant

    Thank you for the kind words.
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    Girlfriend ignoring messages / acting distant

    I wouldn't say safe, but I definitely wouldn't say she's cheating or another guy is in the picture. Still staying with the one word responses. Message for message. Nothing more.
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    Girlfriend ignoring messages / acting distant

    UPDATE So last night she came home from work, and txt "ate dinner?" . Several messages back and forth, I tell her to sleep twice, she says "oh, now you're trying to escape for the night?" Sends me a picture of her at the moment. Sends me another one of her from a wedding a while back, then...
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    Girlfriend ignoring messages / acting distant

    Great input from almost EVERYONE, thank you all, there is just wayyyyyy too much to quote individually. I let the frame slip a little. I highly doubt there is another guy, because I always have had access to her phone (and even during the one meeting during these bad weeks, she let me hold and...
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    Girlfriend ignoring messages / acting distant

    500 total. 200 from me , 300+ from her. That's including small stuff like hey, or spell corrections* etc
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    Girlfriend ignoring messages / acting distant

    Yeah, by ghost I meant I would stop sending texts first and no more of multi messages. More like a only write when she writes, and stay ghost when she doesn't write. Got finals, job and other social things to keep me pretty busy meanwhile.
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    Girlfriend ignoring messages / acting distant

    Well obviously you cant say it wasn't healthy; you can't judge a 3 and a half year relationship based off of several hundred words on a forum. It's been very healthy, we never had NC's longer than 2 days once a year (all initiated by me, and she would always re-initiate contact). How is 500...
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    Girlfriend ignoring messages / acting distant

    UPDATE: She just texted me. Saying she beyond pissed off, because I called her a B*T*H yesterday for not doing something I said. Said she is utmost pissed off at me, and tells me "Today is not your night, do not annoy me I will flip the **** out." "You make my life miserable" She was at...
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    Girlfriend ignoring messages / acting distant

    I mean , I used to wake up 3pm to see her goodmorning messages from 8AM. Now, I wake up 11AM, no message. I message her goodmorning, and I get no response until like 9pm. On her free days, she writes around 5pm. From 500 messages a day, it has becom around 20 messages a day.
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    Girlfriend ignoring messages / acting distant

    Yeah, I know what you're saying. The thing is, over the 3 years of dating exclusively, she has always made sure to text me even if she was cooking or taking a shower (put the phone outside, wipe hands dry everytime to text). I have been the one who would usually respond late and it would...
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    Girlfriend ignoring messages / acting distant

    Girlfriend of three years. She's 20 I am 22. Started dating when she was 17 I was 19. Sex is amazing (of course after she became legal), she was a virgin, has learned to give me heavenly *******s over the course of three years. She is (was?) madly in love with me. Does not even SMILE when...
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