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Yeah you're right, need to re-read the first 2 sections of the dj bible. She cancelled a few hour before the date anyway. Onwards and upwards

Really appreciate the advice, will start the way you described. However, I'm not looking for anything in particular, just sex on date 1 or 2...then I'll decide to cut it/fwb/more whatever. So I'll probably try to escalate ASAP once I know there's some interest. Which is what I would imagine...

Got it, will work in sitting down for a drink next to each other + a walk

20-25 miles

Got this part nailed - told her the day/time/location/activity. Drinks/shoot some pool Sounds good. Only problem is we're meeting driving distance from either of our homes, so need to get her wanting a day 2 to close properly.

Meeting a girl from tinder tomorrow night, she's 19, and sounds a little on the shy side. Interaction went like this - Bit of conversation - she seems receptive Ask her to meet up - she says OK but in a "yeah fine ok" sort of way, colder. Gut feeling says she won't flake, and is either just...

Unfortunately I think you're right.

2 part question if any of you have an insight. Looking at trying tinder to get a couple of fwbs, had one for a couple of weeks but we fell out so she gone. Feel like when I know I'm getting it regularly, my nightgame is smoother. (Abundance?). And to be honest, right now it just feels rusty as...

Looks like we have a consensus ha. frustrating as fvck, typing that text stayed on my mind all night. will forget about it soon hopefully.

Yeah this is the only aspect of it which makes me "hold on to hope". Would love to send a "come over and fck" text right now to be honest. I won't though, as if she rejects it then BOOM, that'd be all attraction gone, right?

Thanks for replies above, looks like i've done the "right" thing. It's that nagging feeling that maybe she was reaching out.......but if she really wanted it, she'd be more direct/try harder anyway. Will do my best to put this one to the back of my mind for the time being. What did you guys...

Leaning towards that. This was the article, thoughts? http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2014/10/12/important-ignore-breakup/

After 4 weeks no contact (2 year relationship) got the "just seeing how you are" msg. Replied back a couple of times, kept responses blunt and ended convo. I wasn't great during the relationship, maybe even too aloof if anything, only got angry/reactive at the end. Mutual breakup although I...