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Yeah i tried to get her back to my place the second time but she said she had to be up early. Probably bull****, but eh what can you do.

No idea who that is. Link me?

While i do agree man, sometimes it just comes to that.. she'll message me on facebook messenger and though i do keep it short.. sometimes i just get left on read even with the short back to back. Do i just ignore her next time she reaches out... give her a taste of her own medicine?

So I have this chick i've been hanging out with recently, we get along great in person but she does this thing that drives me absolutely nuts... and quite honestly is a deal breaker for me. We'll be talking (text/fb messenger) and she'll just drop off. Even after I've asked her something. Just...

Right on man. I feel like small changes like that are always good. I mean, they make you feel better about yourself and that is always positive, right?

I agree with this completely! Bad behavior doesn't get rewarded. Honestly, I'm actually lucky that when girls do this to me, it turns me off big time and a begin to lose interest pretty fast. I almost think less of them... I know that's kind of bad but **** 'em. My time is valuable and anyone...

Most likely true haha. I was more so just curious why someone would do that type of thing. I never do that type of **** with women for an ego boost.

I don't really see how I'm orbiting her. I'm kind of fed up at this point. Yeah I feel this man, to be fair i stopped initiating contact after the first time she said she was busy. She then hit me up again and I asked a second time when she hit me up. To which she also said she's busy. Now...

Yeah I have asked her out. Twice actually. She just said she was super busy both times. Which I'm just going to call out for being 100% bull****. Anybody can come back with a time that would better work for them. I refuse to ask a third time because she knows I've asked twice. It was after the...

Yeah that seems like too much work and game playing to me haha. I'd rather just ignore her from this point on until she takes a hint. The way i see it. If you're not going to make time for me, and purposely leave me hanging. You'll get nothing from me.

I see what you're saying, but doesn't this spark the debate that waiting the same amount of time she does is also playing a game? If i respond back around the same amount of time as she does, she will for sure know it's because she's doing that. Which leads me to think she'll know that its kind...

It's not by text. it's by facebook. That's what I meant by i can see that she's online. I guess i never looked at it as if i talk to her when she get's back to me that's still being weak. So i guess just give her the cold shoulder a bit to show her I'm not the biggest fan of her doing that?

I'm confused about this one chick. She always initiates contact with me, so I respond, then she drops off responding for three or four days. Then said days later, will respond as if there wasn't four days between when she said Hey! Usually we'll talk for hours when she does respond but I...

Well it went like this. She initiated contact and seemed super interested in talking to me. As I had to go somewhere I said: Me: Hey, I gotta run but are you free next weekend? we gotta get together. Her: Unfortunately I have plans! I made some bad adult decisions and have no money haha. I...

Fair enough, man, but I disagree. I think twice is fine if they are coming to you each time a conversation happens.

I will start by saying I hate being a **** to people, so i probably come off way to cheery most of the time. Say a girl is initiating conversation, and acting completely interested in talking with me, but whenever I ask to hangout, they say they are busy. If this happens more than twice (with...

This was a good read man

I got one last week saying she "might be going to a music festival", then a wedding the weekend after. She literally prolonged her agenda, to avoid hanging out. Probably thought she was being clever too.

I've gone out with a few girls for a couple years since her. She's gone out with a couple guys. I never said i was waiting, and haven't been at all. As i said, I walked away, moved on and was happy, but she always trys to wedge her way back into my life. Not once have i contacted her first to...

It's kind of funny how we get so caught up in the years we've known someone, that cutting them out feels wrong somehow. You guys are right though. I did it once and was fine with it. There's no point in repeating this process again with nothing changing. If she's not giving me what I want, she's...