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hmmm... I mean... I've only kissed (and everything else) one girl (and she had never been with anyone before me). I really really liked how we had never been with anyone else. I just don't want a complete slut. It's hard for me to imagine that a girl who sleeps around has a lot of respect for...

I know man and I'm okay with a girl doing stuff with like a former boyfriend or something. It just seems like every single girl here has hooked up with a hundred guys in her lifetime.

I guess I'm just asking if you guys might have a different perspective on the situation that I could maybe use. I just don't want to kiss a pair of lips that have seen many ****s haha

So I am currently in college and it seems like girls here "hook up" (make out, give head) with a different guy every week. Like... I don't want someone else's sloppy seconds. How do you guys possibly respect girls who randomly hook up? How can you date a girl who gives head to guys who don't...

No no no! haha when I said "here," I meant at my university, not this website! haha

Thank you so much for the advice, everyone!! I really am putting a lot of effort into this shift from Nice Guy to MAN and the information on this website has been a great help in changing my habits.

I read SOOOOO much material on this website over break. And I plan to watch those youtube videos this week. I don't really see myself as the type of guy to bang random chicks. I just want respect from people, especially girls. I am tired of being friend-zoned when I know that my value is...

hmmm... I never thought about this. I guess it's too late to respond to that text... but I should be friendly with the ugly girl if I see her. Get her to introduce me to others in her social circle. I really don't want to date this ugly girl or hook up with her... but maybe I should respond with...

I am learning this now. I guess showing any emotional response would be bad. It just pisses me off because if I'm not nice... I think girls won't talk to me at all. I am definitely done with the whole Nice Guy™ thing. 2 girls (different situations) were crying to me last semester about how...

So I guess I made the mistake of befriending a pretty girl at college who only sees me as a friend. She has blown me off before and I responded with "it's okay. maybe we can hang out another time." This was BEFORE I found this website... Anyway, a couple weeks ago, I got a text message from her...

Instead of spending your valuable time on earth with someone that WILL end terribly, you could be going out and finding someone that you can have fun with and might have potential. Why don't people eat Big Macs every day until they start getting really fat? Why don't people smoke for fun and...

thanks for the advice dude I shouldn't have been nervous at all. She was not what I was hoping for and I am happy i didn't create this great image in my mind like i did in the past She told me how she never wants to be married or have children... get's in the way of life Family is so...

I responded to that thread right before you posted the link in this thread haha I read that poem constantly after the break-up "Or being lied about, don't deal in lies, Or being hated, don't give way to hating," I was lied about and hated by her and many people in high school. But a real man...

I am overanalyzing everything and I think it's gonna mess up the date. Any advice on how to stop doing this?

you're right. I mean after all, my friends were envious that I had a girlfriend for over a year and that I was getting consistent action. However, I wasn't any happier. There were times (like when I was getting action) that I was very happy haha. But fights, having my emotions played with, being...

okay so I'm 19... My first girlfriend was BPD... I don't want to go into detail but basically she left me for some jerk. I was devastated but after introspecting, I realized that I enabled her behavior by being a "Nice Guy." I always gave in to her demands and let SOOO many unacceptable actions...