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Field Report. 2. Got into talk with a girl on campus. It was a pretty boring conversation because we kept on talking about classes, school, teachers. It was pretty retarded but I told her to put her number on my cell phone. The thing is either she put it in wrong or forgot to save it, or she...

thanks bro. its just that i come off ****y a lot, i mention it in some of my previous posts. so i really tried to act myself this time around. ill read your posts also, on the whole time and place thing. i didnt want to confirm a place because i wanted it to be a surprise (plus i didnt really...

I don't know bro. Girls are completely weird. They will show interest but not take you up on your offer. See my just created thread for a similar situation. But on your situation it might be something about them being attracted but not building rapport. In Mystery Method its called the buyer's...

Field Report 1. I saw this guy near my church. He's a refugee that just came from Asia for not too long and he was smoking so I asked to smoke with him even though I don't really smoke. All I really did was take 2 puffs and tried to blow smoke rings. I asked him if he could blow smoke rings and...

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Well today I had a conversation with someone in my class, not a stranger but she was talking about her nephew and autism FOREVER. Some people really like to talk and there's others that don't really open up even when you ask a lot of questions. I guess you have to ask something that is important...

I think this is HUGE key to oneitis and I just made a thread about it. The thing is I am scared it will fail but I will still always have to see her at my Catholic school... What do I do?

the symptoms: I can't stop thinking about her. She seems like the most perfect girl ever. Always positive, so talented in so many things. Is a good person to everyone. She's pretty too. And the only problem is I can't tell if she likes me or not. Probably not, I think I am already in the...

Just peeked at some of the others journal. I didn't realize we were suppose to keep track on everything else that wasn't related to the week. Yesterday I was talking to a girl in biology but then the class got quiet so we started writing in a journal. I found out she played tennis so I wrote I...

Field Report Wednesday May 20, 2009 50/50 Hi's 2/2 Hours EC All I got to say is that was tiring as hell. I went EVERYWHERE today. Right after class ended I drove to Safeway and walked around the aisle keep eye contact with everyone. It was kinda funny because when I first walked in there...

Okay. First field report as promised. I was walking on college campus and I said good morning to this one old guy. He didn't respond and kept walking. That's all. hehehe I am so baddddd. Hi's and Hellos : 1/50 Hour of Eye contact: 0/2

lol rushing i am so glad you followed up on this thread. it makes me feel like someone actually care and i appreciate it alot. THX! I just got back from a 3 day weekend retreat and have spent zero time on this week so far. sorry to disappointed but i promise I will spend 4 hours tomorrow and...

First thing I did to prepare. This might seem funny but it actually means a lot to me. I am cleaning my whole room and car so that my environment is not a mess, having a clean room and clean car makes me feel really good. Also, I laundried all my clothes (I don't a great wardrobe but will find...

Rushingdude123 sent me a message that is probably very similar to everyone else to start my own approach journal. I am gonna see him through that! I am currently 18 years old. I have never had a girlfriend or ever even kissed a girl before. Am I totally socially retarded? No. But I can often...

"guess what ur going to do this weekend *grins*,ur hanging out with me!" or something along that line

thanks everyone for replying i dont feel so down at the moment but i know it can be ruined at any moment. but what do u mean am i scared of intimacy willpower? i want intimacy! i am not scared that they like me... i want them to like me. you are probably right though. my C&F probably is very...

sign me in! I am not completely socially awkward but I guess I can improve to even something more. I have problem escalating or feeling very negative from little things that girls do so i want to get rid of this.

how do i find something better to do. i am learning musical instruments, doing mma, studying retardedly hard for pre-med but i always think everyday about how i do all these things because i am trying to distract myself from the fact that i dont have a girl...

yea i really cant tell if they lost interest or they are push/pulling me. i have to admit i do this a lot and maybe its their defense against mine. maybe i am not showing enough interest and they do it to see how i respond. but its so stupid because if we both play these games then how do we...

i would like to think that it is because of my behaviors but when ur 18 turning 19 and still haven't gotten a kiss, a girl then you start believing maybe there is something inherently really wrong with you that everyone knows and u are too clueless to figure out. most of my interactions with...