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  1. The Duke

    Put Yourself Out There

    Talking to old ladies is about practicing social skills and improving your interactions. The problem here is many of these guys have not interacted with girls/women or many random men. Or they've formulated fearful ideas that make it difficult. Thats why its not cringey as you claim. Old...
  2. Barrister

    Put Yourself Out There

    Practicing social skills can be done with anyone. Old ladies and even men. It doesn't mean it is exactly the same as approaching a hot 25 year old to get a number. That isn't Duke's point. His point is that a lot of men are flat out scared to interact socially period. These men, having zero...
  3. pipeman84

    Put Yourself Out There

    IMO, flirting with old ladies at checkout - first I heard that suggestion from Corey Wayne - is ridiculous & useless and probably creepy & cringey as well. We're all grown up people here who've gone to school, high school, maybe college, work environment, various activities etc in other words...
  4. C

    What would you estimate your rejection rate is?

    I disagree with those parameters since these other one-off type of hits should be factored in as well, because sometimes you get lucky if you put in an effort. For example, if you approach 10 ladies, get no number, but another lady around saw you approaching, thought you were cute and went up...
  5. G

    What would you estimate your rejection rate is?

    I suppose one explanation for my high rejection rate is: A lot of my successes, I don't count as successes (at least as far as calculating my success/rejection rate goes) For example, the last woman I had free sex with (April 2021), I don't count as a success. Why? Even though I initiated the...
  6. BillyPilgrim

    I attended a speed dating event today

    Match.com has a good selection of milfs, especially here in Phx/Scottsdale. Look for the ones with a sexy vibe and showing off their boobs/showing hard nips You might want to go get an escort to blow off some steam if you're slamming doors at venues.
  7. G

    Online dating has never been worse

    So it turns out we're pretty similar looks-wise. To test out my hypothesis that my looks have possibly gone downhill with age, I put 3 images of myself through the AI rater yesterday (one from age 18, one from 23, and one from my current age of 33) The verdict: My looks have faded (but not by...
  8. AntoniousIV

    Trying to get this girl (need advice)

    Im not 36, im 20. I messed up when inputing my age Also my sweater smelled like sweat. I guess i kinda do lack confidence cus im afraid of asking her to go for drinks.
  9. B

    Trying to get this girl (need advice)

    No...why would you bring along and assumedly pay for another guy to distract this girl from you while also subsidizing his goal of also trying to sleep with her? If a girl even asks to bring a +1 on a date, she's not that interested. You're shy...you took a college class as a 36-year old man...
  10. G

    Letting go of past trauma that is negatively impacting my confidence

    Well-said about the part where you pointed out that therapy will do very little to make a man a better approacher. I did online therapy in 2023 with a long-distance therapist. I then did in-person therapy in 2024 with a local therapist. In both cases, I was essentially told by the therapist...
  11. G

    Online dating has never been worse

    I've mentioned before that I'm terrified of pregnancy (that's why I prefer 45+) Even in my early 20s when I was college, I managed to get it up for (and climax with) a smelly 54 year old woman I wasn't even attracted to. If early 20s me was capable of that, surely 33 year old me could easily...
  12. G

    I attended a speed dating event today

    Back when I was in college (and Craigslist still had the casual encounters section), I posted some ads specifically seeking out cougars. I bagged some cougars using that method. As for the last woman I had free sex with, she's a cougar too (13 years my senior). I found out she finds me...
  13. AntoniousIV

    Trying to get this girl (need advice)

    So during college one day I saw a poster which spoke about extracellular activities like learning law. I signed up for the law part, not because law interests me, but to make friends and potentially find a cute girl. We go every saturday, I've been there twice. First time ppl were getting to...
  14. T

    Letting go of past trauma that is negatively impacting my confidence

    ...has their own struggle in life. How you overcome this struggle and build your character is more important than what that struggle was. 2) College/University isn't some sexual utopia ! Yes getting sex from desirable women is much easier but so is ending up with no qualification and a massive...
  15. G

    Why Girls like Pretty Boys

    Here's the thing though: You can simultaneously be a pretty boy and be super macho. Take John Parker Wilson for example. He's totally a pretty boy. Yet at the same time, you have to be extremely manly to play college football/NFL. Back in his football days, a lot of broads were extremely...
  16. inquisitor

    Letting go of past trauma that is negatively impacting my confidence

    Read up on Rian Stone. I believe he agrees on faking it until you're making it. Note that his advice works if you are truly capable of humility. Not humility to become arrogant, not humility as a bragging point, but humility because you are humble, and you are willing to learn more about...
  17. Jesse Pinkman

    Letting go of past trauma that is negatively impacting my confidence

    From here we can still only infer, we don't know what was said at your company retreat that triggered the response you had. What I can tell you and just about almost everyone on this forum about Rich White Suburbia is this, you will never be a part of it. Even though you will never be a part of...
  18. G

    Online dating has never been worse

    You mentioned Elliott Rodger. Even though I would never go on a massacre like Elliott did, it's eerie how many similarities I have with him. Decent looks (even if not 10/10), yet hard time getting a woman Wealthy family ASD social phobia (his social phobia was even worse than mine)...
  19. G

    Hot Take: Sex is overrated

    I got laid in college, yeah. Entirely through tech methods though. Some of the stuff I did in an attempt to get broads at my school was pathetic. In addition to getting no sex from any classmates, I never even got dates from any classmates...other than this one broad so strange I had to break...
  20. H

    Halloween plans

    The last weekend before Halloween has a lot of costumes out. I was at a halloween party, but bar hopping is great for seeing the wild antics.
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