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Therapy isn't designed to make you better with women. It's designed to make you a better version of you and allow you to break free from the baggage that is holding you back from becoming that.

I think many men will be able to relate. It seems like there was trauma on multiple levels, both related to attracting/seducing women and other aspects of life. I think a lot of men end up disappointed with their college sexual marketplace experiences. This forum has 2 good college sex threads...

To keep it short, college was a terrible time in my life and it compounded in to me struggling career & life wise until like 30. I can’t unsee and undo what happened, so those memories, experiences, and consequences continue to haunt me and negatively affect my confidence. I’ve considered...

Interesting topic. Let's start by zooming out a bit. I have said on this forum before that it is the combination of looks, money, status, and personality that attracts and retains women. Your home (regardless of housing type) is a reflection of the money part of the seduction equation. Money...

That's possible to do. I think one of the best ways to visit Europe as a United States resident would be to go see multiple countries over a longer period of time. Most people of working age do not have enough vacation time to make this happen. In high school or college, a person might have...

A 53yrs old woman crying on TikTok can't have been mentally sane at 27 when she got married. Furthermore, she was already used up goods by then as she's now dating a guy she used to date in college. So her ex husband couldn't have been that much different to her, quality wise. In other words, no...

I think it was in junior year for me very inspiring along with getfitnow.com a workout forum.

I elaborated on the school dance thing. As for the football games and holiday party, I don't want to elaborate a whole lot (luckily I didn't wet myself). Let's just say when you have social phobia and are unfamiliar with social norms, big events are a disaster. Here's one example from a...

I respect you and your contributions to this forum. I don't have to agree 100% with anyone on here. There is nuance with educated White women. Also, a White woman with a bachelor's degree may be different in attitude than a White woman with an advanced degree. Educated White women are very...

Only getting one pity dance at the high school dance was humiliating. I never should have gone. I don't even want to elaborate on the humiliation at the college football games and the holiday party (the story is worse)

She is recent divorcee at age 53. Her marriage ended in 2022 after 24 years. It seems like she got a good enough divorce settlement. She is renting a place in Westchester County, New York, an upscale suburban area. https://www.cnbc.com/2012/04/26/Americas-10-Richest-Counties.html It looks...

Where exactly is the humiliation? :rolleyes:

That might be the case. I also think the isolated man has no buffer for rejection. Therefore, rejections hold more weight than they might had such a man been appropriately socialized. If a man has friends, close family members, or other people who care about and love him, rejection means little...

Ok.

Other than a brief stretch in college, I've been pretty socially disconnected/isolated for 20 years now (ever since my childhood best friend left me for the cool kids) One theory I have for why the socially disconnected/isolated are more uptight about rejection: If our social disconnect goes...

If a guy has a track record of humiliating himself at social events, does it reach a point where he should throw in the towel (and stop putting himself in positions to get humiliated)? I went to one school dance in high school. Humiliated myself (and all I got was one pity dance from a hot girl...

Not sure what race has to do with this, sounds to me like you're using it as an excuse for lack of success or trying to cope, but I'll play your game., I'm a black guy in a mostly white state (78%) and I have dealt with those "bougie white women"and educated white women etc that you're talking...

The timing of Roosh's "Day Bang" is interesting (2011). By 2011, we were starting to notice some ill effects the tech era was having on a guy's chances with a woman (although certainly nothing like 2024). It's possible that's why there was a need for Roosh to publish the book. How alarming to...

I read Roosh's "Day Bang" very soon after it was published in September 2011. I transitioned more of my practice from nightlife venues to non-bar. I was in my late 20s then and seeking a way out of the bars. I had been aware of daygame as early as my early 20s but never knew how to put daygame...

For me daygame transformed my life - yes it was time consuming but I learnt a great deal from it and when done right it can be incredibly awarding . I made a lot of connections and enjoyable experiences and all together felt more appreciated in these relationships it also grew my social...