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Wow. This has to be the best response to a question I've ever received. You have explained everything so perfectly and made me understand in clear terms too. I like your point on perseverative cognition and fruitless rumination. It's true and I've been in engaging in it for days. But like you...

Truer words have not been spoken. Yeah I don't even know how I ****ed her that many times even after she said no at a point. But it's life I guess. Yeah I shouldn't even be angry especially since I never really wanted to date her. I guess why I was being so emotional was because she was my...

I wrote a very long post yesterday about this situation but I was highly emotional when writing it and it was mostly filled with unnecessary information. I've summarized things with some questions I have about the matter. I go to university and I met this first year that I clicked with. She was...

I do want solid advice so I'd make a new post with a shortened version of the situation. You've perfectly described me even without really knowing me, and yes it has created problems with a lot of women in my past. Even up until now. It's easy to attract them but my actions and mindset make them...

Succinctly put. I know I'm not mature when it comes to my emotions. I get emotional easily and let it overwhelm me most times. A few women I've been with have told me I'm emotional and act girly sometimes. It's the one thing I wish I could change in my life, I keep trying but it's hard because...

True. I see that now. I was highly emotional when I wrote that, but I'm back to normal now. This situation is a part of life.

Fair enough. I've realized that now. Life goes on and it's not that deep. How about my friend though? What do you suggest I do? Keep things cool?

That's the thing. I wasn't dating her, we were just ****ing and he knew about it. Besides we have the same friend group.

Fair enough, but should I stop talking to her and what do i do about my best friend? How do I handle the situation? And right now, since i'm with my parents. i can't really meet new girls until i leave in the summer so i might be stuck with the oneitis except i distract myself through hobbies...

Continuation: So some weeks later she asked me to come see her. she wanted me to come and i said okay and i made some time. i came and we had sex again but i think this was worse than the first time. i was very lethargic and i didn't last very long. it seemed like she was disappointed and i...

Long Post Alert; Please pardon the multiple grammatical errors and disorganization, i wrote this with difficulty in my heart. Please read it and advice me. Hello everybody. Happy New Year. I'm in a dilemma and I need help. I have been feeling down and almost depressed for the past few days...

Quite the contrary for me, his style is very unique and he breaks down arguments and opinions into relatable terms. He also covers possible counters that his statements may cause. It's actually very relatable, but I think I understand your point. One book I couldn't stand was The Rational...

Thanks.

I'm currently reading the Book of Pook He says that feminism is about de-sexualization. Men have become AFCs and nice guys, thereby losing what makes them men: masculinity. Same goes for women. He also says that it has made the genders to become androgynous. This affects other sectors like...

As a short guy, will girls be attracted to me? I'm 158 cm ( 5''2 feet) In high school, a lot of girls liked me and I was in flings with a sizeable amount of them. I never liked the concept of dating and hated being tied to a particular person. Whenever I got tired I left the girls, mostly...

Hello, I'm 17 and I'm quite short by societal standards, 158 cm/ 5.2 feet. I'm also skinny. I exercise regularly. My routine consists of exercises like: push ups, crunches, sit ups, jogging, etc. I now have a fit body with well defined muscles. I'm not muscular, but I look fit. I don't have...

Thanks dead masterx

I understand your points, but what if you live in different countries? I'm talking about regular females, not necessarily a romantic interest per se.

Alright, thanks for the advice. I will focus on RLD.

I know that we are advised to go out and physically connect with girls. However, sometimes we need to chat with them through our devices. A lot of guys do not hold "frame" when chatting with girls and they give off "beta" vibes. I want tips and advice on how to properly chat with girls. I...