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seems like a boundary that needs to be set to me. There is a big difference between wanting to buy her the makeup and her just taking it from you. Did she buy lunch?

I started seeing this woman I met on OLD. Her face was covered on her profile pic, which was a red flag I missed. They cover their face so their boyfriends cant find them on there. Anyway on the 2nd date she tells me she is in a relationship of 12 years that "doesn't work" anymore, but she...

What makes you think the financially successful part is related? Most women are looking for someone that is financially stable. I don't think it would make them lose interest.

You have to wait until she makes contact with you first. It's best to accept that it might not happen. Go find a new one!

I keep getting stood up on first dates with OLD. I always set a specific place and time. Any pro-tips to prevent this? I guess I could check in with them on the day of, but that just seems kind of weak. Almost like asking them again...

I think it's better to unfriend/unfollow once you break it off so that you won't see pictures of them.

I think the bottom line is that this change must come from him. It seems that he is pretty far off from where he needs to be. "Drastic change requires drastic measures" I have many friends in this same situation and they are stuck. Some things I can suggest to help: - hitting the gym often...

Don't be so hard on yourself. Look on the bright side, at least you didn't have multiple kids with her and you identified the problem pretty quickly. They say 50% of marriages end in divorce and another good percentage remain married/unhappy because they don't have the balls to stand up for...

That makes it a lot easier. If you don't have any assets to split I would suggest trying to file it yourself with the court if things end in a somewhat friendly manner. It will be a lot cheaper that way. As soon as lawyers are involved they can see what is in your bank account so they know...

You lost me at "an hour away". I did this for a few dates and it's a lot of driving just to get laid.. I suggest changing your settings so that you get some closer to you.

yes.. a bit into the elbow

I hurt it while I was active. I think I pushed myself too hard one day -- too many bicep exercises or weight.

I recently hurt my bicep. I think by going too heavy. It's just really sore and feels like I overstretched it. Yesterday I did back and dealt with the pain. I'm thinking that might not be best for recovery? Looking for suggestions on how to deal with it and still be able to make forward...

I can totally relate to this. I just started dating again as well and my first few dates were absolute train wrecks. A few points to try to help: If she doesn't ask you any questions, then she isn't interested so you move to the next one. Always go for at least a kiss on the lips at the end...

yup. I think I see the problem now, but at the time I had no idea. Live and learn!

I conceal carry on first dates too, but it's not a gun. It's just a condom! :lol:

This girl I was dating a few months ago when covid was around came by last night to get her things. She kept leaving stuff at my house -- jewelry, makeup, soap, underwear, etc.. I think it was her attempt to keep other women away because she would always leave things here. I broke it off with...

Watched this and it's interesting, but I'm not sure I understand the point he is trying to make. Can anyone explain?

Agreed on getting off the app as soon as you exchange phone numbers. However once you do that she'll still show as a match on the app (at least on Bumble anyway).

I'm not following that. can you be more specific?